I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

You are amazing OP.

OP you are actually amazing. I'm so so so sorry for what you are going through but wow. I would have paid cash money to see his and her faces.

Unfortunately if she added herself to the chat I think she will only see the messages on her phone from after she was added. So she won't have anything to screen shot and adding and P of the OW won't help.

I can't believe he didn't even talk to you, just went downstairs to get in touch with her. What an arsehole.

Do not accept any blame for what they have done. They are so beneath you.

I'm reading all of the messages, thank you. I've just text my mum to come over. To those who suggested telling her husband.... I've just messaged him saying I am about to create a group chat that will destroy him and I'm sorry. Just waiting for him to read that message then I will post the screenshots (they will be in the group too) then I am kicking my husband out of the house. He read it ages ago but hasn't come up. God knows what excuses they are coming up with. She won't be able to defend herself when her husband reads how she is pulling her pants to one side and slliding her fingers in. TMI I'm sorry but they deserve everything.

I added myself to the cat from his phone. Then posted from mine. She has it all.

Wow, you are tough. Well done for not buckling. Your mum will help. Xx

Good for you!

What the above two posters said!

Yes op. They deserve this shitstorm. Can't believe your husband hasn't come back up to see how you're doing

MIssmarple, so, so sorry that you are going through this. You are handling it brilliantly and with great dignity. Please stay strong, we are all here for you.

Were they still posting to each other after you added yourself to the group chat-is that what you screen shotted ?

Sorry-not sure exactly how group WhatsApp works?

God I'm so sorry op.
You are handling this amazingly well.
I've been there too, seems there are many of these shits about.
They are disgusting.

What a pair of cunts
Well done staying so calm

He's read it. I've just created the group chat - all 4 of us reading how much they want each other. The husband has got it.

So much admiration for your courage, OP.

you are handling this in such a dignified way

You are bloody amazing op

The least he can do is leave and give you some space. Disgusting man.

You sound like a very strong women. What an arse knowing u know and being a coward hiding away downstairs.

Bloody hell OP, bet they're shitting themselves!

Good on you, I think they deserve each other - I do feel sorry for her husband but you're definitely doing the right thing.

So glad you have real life support. OMG they're sooooo going to regret this evenings frolics. Cunts.

Oh honey xx

And her. Bet there's fucking fireworks now.
Oh and now my h. Right I'm off downstairs with his bag. Cunt. CUNT.

Pair of cunts!

Sorry op 😔

Oh they’re grim poor you op, and great idea to get your mum over. He sounds like a total coward as well as a cheat.