I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

I’m so glad your Mum showed up with wine. I hope she brought a couple of bottles with her! I have every reason to believe that you are not going to stop and second-guess yourself, OP. I know that your heart is broken and you’re angry and sad, disillusioned and devastated, but you have proved yourself to be strong. We are all so proud of you.

Hope you are ok this morning OP x

Respect op

I’m sorry this is happening to you but I am confident that the world is your oyster now!!

Hugs op. You did the right thing 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

Wow OP, so much respect for you! It's so easy to crumble in that situation and you've absolutely bossed it - good for you!

You sound like a super strong woman and he will be absolutely wounded he's lost you over some dirtbag who happily cheats on her husband... their loss!

Agree with PP - your mom must be very proud of you. Hope you enjoyed the wine xxxx

Well done OP. I think you've handled it very well. Good luck!

Thinking of you this morning xxx

You go girl x

From one MissMarple to another, hats off to you.

You sound like an amazing woman, who deserves better.

OMG

Hope your feeling ok today op.
You've been given some good advice for gett I g your ducks in a row.
Good luck

I think you handled it brilliantly. Well done x

Wow you handled it so brilliantly. Sending hugs xxxx

In complete awe of your strength and composure.
Reading those actually made me feel sick. You have dealt with it all swiftly and decisively. Hth

You've handled this brilliantly OP. Well done you for kicking the cheating prick out.

legend

Incredibly well handled Miss Marple, hope you are ok this morning, must have been a terrible shock

Respect to you Miss Marple!

Wishing you strength to get through the days ahead.

Remember that you have us all behind you in awe of how you've dealt with this.

Hope youre ok OP,

Hope your mum has looked after you.

absolutely huge respect to you. well done - and definitely the right thing to tell the husband.

Wow OP, I’m in awe of you. You’re amazing.

I hope you managed to get some sleep and are feeling ok this morning. What a horrible shock, you dealt with it beautifully.

for you

WOW! Just rtwt. Respect to you OP. If all women were as strong as you no man would dare cheat.

Lots of love op. You've been a total warrior there and I think that will serve you well going forwards. These are the hard yards now as the Adrenalin wears off-take care of yourself-remember to eat-allow yourself or be liked after by your family and friends.

Morning OP hope you managed some sleep. Did your mum stay over? Sorry if I missed it but how old are your DC? Make sure you eat something today x