I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Thinking of you. Know how amazing you are.

Wow!

Bloody well done!

Your mum is great, you are strong as hell.

Hope there’s an ultimately very happy ending at the end of all this for you xx

Bloody well done woman!!!

Total respect to you. You're amazing. I hope you wake up tomorrow and read all these messages and know we all think you're Wonder Woman. Legendary way to handle this.

Bloody hell, you are textbook how I would want to deal with anything like this, amazing.
Utter horrible pair deserve each other and I’d be so grateful if I were her husband too.

So glad that your mum is there for you

You are one strong woman OP. Hope you and your mum are putting the world to right with that here's some from me.

I've been through this too, just awful. Well done for handling it so much better than me. I hope all good things come to you op, and that those two suffer enormously, cunts indeed.

You've been very strong, please use your rl support when it hits you x

You handled that so well x

I'm just smacking my head as to why it didn't occur to me to do this when I discovered messages between my ex and ow..
Respect to you!
Fwiw my life improved a hundredfold

You are badass. And you deserve better

You are fucking brilliant OP. Stay strong, enjoy the wine & don’t forget to eat tomorrow, oh & remember the ‘fuck you’ sentiment when the anger dies down. What a pair of thundercunts. p.s absolutely well done for telling the husband - everyone in that scenario deserved it - he deserved to know & the lying cheats deserved to be found out & whatever the consequences of that are. Go you.

The husband won't see the previous group messages, when you're added to a group you can't see posts from before you were added. OP saw them because she was on DH phone, but she won't have them on hers.

I mean, it doesn't matter, she knows he's a cheating bastard and he's more or less admitted it. Just saying, the husband won't have seen all those messages about how much they 'want' each other.

I think the op said she has sent screenshots to the husband in a new group that she made

Well done OP. Take care of yourself

The husband won't see the previous group messages, when you're added to a group you can't see posts from before you were added. OP saw them because she was on DH phone, but she won't have them on hers.

I don't think that's true on Facebook I think people see messages from the start don't they they used to anyway its WhatsApp where you can only see from when your added.

Op screenshot and sent the othe husband the messages anyway so his in the loop!

Well done op glad your mum is there enjoy the wine

Hopefully he will happen upon a pit of horribly infected needles on his way out, and accidentally set himself on fire in the process.

Bless your fucking heart!! I'll never have the pleasure of knowing you but fuck me im proud of you , keep strong and please don't listen to his bullshit over the coming days xx

Nicely handled OP. Well done to you. Xx

Ah, I see.

I'm glad your mum is with you.

You deserve better. I'm glad you know that and kicked him out.

Nicely handled!! I know your in pain but you will get through it x

I would love to be a fly on the wall in OW house though! Hopefully she's been shown the door too x