I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Well, he messed with the wrong woman, eh?!

My GOD I am in awe of you. I was in a similar situation last year with my cunt of an ex, my heart is beating hard in my chest just reading your updates. You are amazing, what a role model for your kids. Once the adrenaline wears off though be prepared for the grief. I posted on MN at the time and some wonderful person recommended the Chump Lady website. Please keep safe and remember that the entire MN nation are right behind you

So sorry for you, you have fire in your belly right now, make sure you keep it

OP, you fucking RULE.

Stay strong It suits you.

I am so sad for you that this is happening but my god, you are amazing, the way you are dealing with this. I hope H is soon out of the house and that your mum arrives to support you ASAP.

Stay strong OP - the future you and your kids need you to be. Bloody bastard.

Tell you what, if there was ever a way to handle an affair with aplomb, this is it. Go you! I know you'll be devastated just now but one day you'll look back on this and realise that you're a legend.

Bless you op hope you are OK xx

Thank you all so much. He's gone. I do feel bad for telling that slags husband in this way. but he needed to know. My best friend was kept in the dark and she felt so betrayed. I know the shock he is going through and have sent him a private message to say I probably handled it badly but I've only just found out, am not thinking straight, and feel exactly what he is feeling right now. He's not read that one so guess he is busy

My husband said he was sorry but I literally threw him out of the front door. He soon went when I said my mum was on her way. She just called me from the garage up the road to say she has stopped for wine. Thank god.
I may not be back on tonight as she will be here soon, but I wanted to say thanks to each and every one who messaged. It helped more than you know. Thank you x

You are fucking incredible! Oh my god. So sorry this has happened but that is a bloody good way to handle it. Give your mum a cuddle and drink that wine, you've earned it!

Hope you're ok OP 💐

oh my OP, I'm shaking for you
glad your mum will be there any minute
look after yourself

Thank you for updating so we know you are safe X

Absolutely agree with surlycurly, you are going to look back on this when the pain has subsided and be so, so proud of yourself. You are truly strong.

Glad your mum is coming (and bringing wine!) I hope you are ok

Your Mum should be so proud- she raised a legend x

Well done OP. Your mum will look after you tonight

Glad he went without a fight. Wish I had been as brave as you when I was in your position

You are awesome and I’m sorry this has happened. Am glad you slung him out.

You are incredible op xx

Just read this and I'm so proud of you hahah! Do not go back or give in! Stay strong