I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

[MissMarpleMyArse]

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

Maybe he also suspected mrsO

Awful for him tho

So glad you have your mum coming over to look after you.
I am in awe for how well you have dealt with it, better to face up to the situation head on and deal with it.

Glad you've got your mum coming round. You are amazing

Good on you op!
Now kick him to the kerb and pour yourself a x

Oh my god!
Pair of utter bastards.
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this, although I have to say, you are doing it spectacularly. Keep your head up

Hope you are safe and your mum arrives soon. Him and the ow deserve each other.

So sorry this is happening to you OP

You sound so brave and strong though and deserve so much more than him.

Goodness me, you are a woman and a half OP. Your asshole of a husband and mistress have been well and truly fucked!

You are amazing OP.

Sorry this is happening to you OP but I admire your style!

I'm sorry OP, this is horrendous. I hope that your Mum is there to support you soon.

OP well done but please stay safe and let us know you're ok. You had amazing restraint / consideration of your DCs - therefore, didn't want a shouting match.
Oddcat do tell more!

You poor thing. I've been there too. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

What a fucking awesome person you are OP, that's brave. Well done. Stay strong and stay safe. You and your DC deserve better than that.

So sorry OP .

I can only imagine how you're feeling now. You'll have your Mum with you in no time.

Please take care.

OP you are amazing. I’ve also been there and the adrenaline gets you through this bit.
Do you need to sort out anything financially right now before the dust settles- joint accounts etc? I know my ex was an arse with emptying accounts

MrsCatE Don't want to derail . But Ow stuttered and stumbled and I just hung up. Her dad came to my house later that day and had a go at me for upsetting his daughter . My husband was there and did nothing to defend me . He was not only a cheater but spineless too .

What an absolute shit your husband is, but you are amazingly strong. Hope you're ok x

Bloody hell. Wouldn’t want to tangle with you! Pls update so we know you are ok when you can.
What lowlifes they are.

Be prepared to crash when/if he goes.

Look after yourself & DC.

My heart goes out for,you but well done for making him leave and telling her husband.

Fuck OP

You're a no nonsense woman.
I love it

Sorry about the situation. The two of them have betrayed you terribly.

You sound like a strong person.

OP you are MY HERO! I am sincerely sorry you are going through this but you have handled it exactly the right way.
We are here with you. Xx

You've got balls of steel OP, you are incredible