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I just added myself to fb chat with dh and ow

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MissMarpleMyArse · 19/09/2018 21:15

I'm fucking fuming. I posted recently
About dh's suspect WhatsApp activity. It all stopped but I have been keeping an eye on his phone. This afternoon when he went to the toilet I clicked his apps and saw messenger was open. I've just had the chance to snoop again while he's in the shower and found messages between him and our friend (we aren't that close with her. - well I'm not). Loads of sexual stuff. I just added myself to the conversation and said 'wow I don't see that coming'
I'm upstairs now. Neither of them have read it yet.

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PolkaDoting · 19/09/2018 22:26
Shock
ListenLinda · 19/09/2018 22:26

It says a lot that you’re husband hasn’t said one word to you at all.

I wonder how she will explain this to her husband, silly twats they are.

Thinking of you OP, hope you are okay.

hiddeneverything · 19/09/2018 22:27

I can't believe he hasn't come up and spoken to you yet ShockShockShock

HerRoyalFattyness · 19/09/2018 22:27
Flowers
PrettyLovely · 19/09/2018 22:27

What a bastard, so sorry op Flowers

ApolloandDaphne · 19/09/2018 22:28

Fuck sakes they are brazen.

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 19/09/2018 22:28

You’re amazing. Stand firm.

Oddcat · 19/09/2018 22:28

They deserve all that's coming to them , it won't seem so exciting now they've been exposed for the shits they are .

I phoned the OW at her work (hairdresser) and just said its Shitheads wife , she opened her mouth and spilled all the gory details , apologising , saying she didn't mean to hurt me etc . I replied ' oh really , I only phoned to book an appointment' .

You'll be running on adrenaline, it's an awful feeling . Glad your mums coming over . Flowers

FunSponges · 19/09/2018 22:28

Well done OP. The poor husband deserves to know what his wife is up to.

TheActualLastJedi · 19/09/2018 22:28

Good on you, they've both been served with what they deserve.

Cowardly Cunts the pair of them.

Hope you and the kids are ok OP and hope your mum comes round soon. 💐

PanamaPattie · 19/09/2018 22:29

Fireworks indeed! Well done.

MrsMozart · 19/09/2018 22:29

What an arsewipe coward he is.

NotANotMan · 19/09/2018 22:30

Fuck me You went nuclear! Big respect. The pair of shitty twats have dug themselves a huge hole and believe me those sneaky wanks will not be worth it in the end

NotSoThinLizzy · 19/09/2018 22:30

You are fucking amazing!!! Stay strong

squirrelnutkins1 · 19/09/2018 22:31
Thanks
WhatIsThisTomfoolery · 19/09/2018 22:32

Please be careful op

He's not got much to lose now

Justabouthadituptohere · 19/09/2018 22:32

Oh wow OP. You are so brave and handled this all so amazingly. What a fucking pair of dicks both of them. Flowers

LorelaiRoryEmily · 19/09/2018 22:32

You are absolutely amazing.Flowers

WhatIsThisTomfoolery · 19/09/2018 22:32

And you've humiliated him.... he will be angry. Hope your mum arrives soon

EinsteinsArousedSausagesHCB · 19/09/2018 22:33

Fucking hell OP, am in awe! Flowers

Growingboys · 19/09/2018 22:33

OP you are amazing. You sock it to em!

Seriously though, you poor thing. What an awful shock.

Good luck c

MsOliphant · 19/09/2018 22:33

I'm obviously in a minority here but I wouldn't have told the husband he was 'about to be destroyed' and chucked him into a group chat. Would have been more sensitive to tell him privately?

IdahoJones · 19/09/2018 22:33

I wish I'd done this 20 years ago.

MsOliphant · 19/09/2018 22:33

I mean the husband of the OW, obviously

NDNDNDND93 · 19/09/2018 22:34

Wow you are so strong OP X

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