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Original poster

The cat is.out of the bag, just want to protect my DD

214 replies

niteandfog · 04/03/2018 11:47

For.thode who know.my story, everybody now knows about the affair. I know I'll get substantial amounts of name calling as expected, but my main worry is my DD. Although I still can't think of what they could do to her I just want to protect her from this fallout. I think I'll probably have to change her of school, but I guess it's sely days.

OP posts:
MissP103 · 05/03/2018 11:51

Pathetic excuse for a woman and mother. Your poor dd has to suffer because of your sleazy ways. Don't worry she will despise you for what you will have done to her.

AlwaysPondering · 05/03/2018 13:13

BS.

SumAndSubstance · 05/03/2018 14:25

Otherwise you should be writing for a soap - because it’s a good story and very believable for those of us who have experience of people like that.

Yes, it would be a lot better than most of what's on Corrie at the moment!

falsepriest · 05/03/2018 17:24

10/10 almost gave a shit

RachelTeeth · 05/03/2018 19:23

You are not ‘all in this together’ your daughter is nothing to do with your grubby lusting and theatrics. It’s nothing to do with her, stop trying to fan the drama flames and drag more people into your sex life, it’s tacky and unnessecary.

Masterbuilders · 05/03/2018 19:29

Why does this person get so many bites?

IrianOfW · 06/03/2018 07:29

If she is of the hairy-hand persuasion she is a very consistent one as she is all over another relationship site giving it the same. I'm afraid there's a good chance it's real [sad[

DavetheCat2001 · 06/03/2018 08:01

HQ are keeping an eye on this thread

Original poster
niteandfog · 06/03/2018 09:10

Well it's all real I'm afraid. My DD appears to be fine, nothing has happened at school which was my biggest fear. But it's early days I think.

OP posts:
SparklyMagpie · 06/03/2018 10:25

You know what, your behaviour is disgusting, faking pretending to give a shit about your DD. You wouldn't have to worry if you didn't fuck up these children's lives

RuthsRandomRadish · 06/03/2018 10:30

Poor dd

FrancisCrawford · 06/03/2018 10:39

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FizzyGreenWater · 06/03/2018 10:44

As if you'd have a clue whether your DD is fine or not Grin

AthenasOwl · 06/03/2018 10:45

You don't care if she's ok. You care about yourself and no one else. Wise up.

louise5754 · 06/03/2018 10:49

I'm not saying I agree and I've never been a single parent however she could be introducing new men to her daughter every few months. That would mess her up more. I know plenty of kids who have 3/ "dads" x

louise5754 · 06/03/2018 10:49

3/4!

Battleax · 06/03/2018 11:27

I don’t believe a word of this any more.

Nobody sounds like this, even really selfish narcs.

PoorYorick · 06/03/2018 11:29

No, really selfish people do sound like this. I'm sorry to say I really think she's genuine.

Battleax · 06/03/2018 11:32

Well yes some people are this selfish, but that generally try to dress it up or spin it, at least as far as their children go.

SparklyMagpie · 06/03/2018 11:37

I believe it aswell, but what sort of mother acts like she's got her child's best interests at heart but it's anything but

PoorYorick · 06/03/2018 11:37

Well yes some people are this selfish, but that generally try to dress it up or spin it, at least as far as their children go.

Exactly what's happening here. She's been engineering this situation for months and starting threads about the 'transition'. If she actually cared about her daughter she'd have made preparations for her at the same time she was gleefully imagining the time that she'd be 'the talk of the town'.

Battleax · 06/03/2018 11:41

Well if she thinks “I want to protect my DD...She’ll have to change schools... It was unnecessary for OM’s DC to know anything...If someone tells DD about it all, then BF can move in” comes over as anything other than someone trying to impersonate the shittest parent alive, she’s cracked.

thunder10 · 06/03/2018 11:53

This is what this woman posted last month on someone else's thread:

Well let's see I already wanted out and then got pregnant so different story (biggest mistake of my life)

She's a lovely woman.

I have 2 dcs with a total dickhead but never would I EVER class them as the 'biggest mistakes of my life'. They made my life.

Op loves all these nasty comments though. Sadly she gets a kick out of them so we are all giving her what she wants.

If her DD does exist.....there's just no words. I feel so sorry for her....what a damaged child she will already be :-(

thunder10 · 06/03/2018 11:53

Obviously I'm being sarcastic at the lovely woman part

SparklyMagpie · 06/03/2018 12:01

Oh she just gets better doesn't she

Never would I ever say my child was a mistake! If i could thank his dad for anything,despite all the shit and heartache, it would be my son! Regardless of anything

For a parent to say that and then put them through all this...well I don't quite know what to say to that

Sounds like they both deserve another after these stunts they've pulled....I feel for all the children involved, absolutely disgusting