The cat is.out of the bag, just want to protect my DD

[niteandfog]

For.thode who know.my story, everybody now knows about the affair. I know I'll get substantial amounts of name calling as expected, but my main worry is my DD. Although I still can't think of what they could do to her I just want to protect her from this fallout. I think I'll probably have to change her of school, but I guess it's sely days.

Never mind Facetime, ex wife and SILs and all the nonsense, getting back to what the thread is about: how is your daughter?

How is she coping with this? How much does she know? Does she say anything about how she's feeling?

But it’s not best for her daughter Lifesabeach she has suffered enough disruption with divorcing parents and moving house and now a new boyfriend for her Mum, why should she lose her school and her friends too?

Well most doesn't mean all evening does it?

You seem to not give a single care in the world to anyone other than yourself, it's embarrassing the lack of empathy you have given the circumstances.

She has two homes. So technically she never moved out. She doesn’t know I have a boyfriend. She just knows her parents got divorced and mummy is happy.

She'll know a damn sight more on Monday so I'd be telling her in the most gentle way what to expect tomorrow.

OK. But is she happy?

Have you spoken to her school and made them aware of the situation so they can watch out for her and support her?

Cannot believe I wasted my time reading this drivel, you sound like a petulant teenager, what have you won exactly???? Are you that moronic that you feel you can build a relationship out of lies ??? Pathetic

My message was deleted, so I'll rephrase!

'Do go away Op. nobody is interested, you have created this whole situation through your own selfish choices, and your repeated posts do little to take on board any advice- they simply revel in the drama you've created at the expense of many others, your child included.'

There, is that better?

To people considering posting- really, search OP's previous threads before you do. You're wasting your breath and simply feeding this drama llama. The poor DD (if she exists) would be better served if everyone on here simply posted 'not interested OP' and went away- or better still, didn't reply at all.

Then maybe she'd spend her time sorting out this mess instead of posting excitedly crowing about her ridiculous actions.

Poor kids, all of them. Hope this man is worth destroying your daughter's stability, security and happiness. Perhaps she could live with her Dad full time instead of being further disrupted for the sake of her mother's sex life.

Yes, school is aware of the divorce and they've told us she's coping well

Are you living with him? Doesn’t she see your bf when she stays with you?

Gosh, she'll know all about it on monday.
You would be such a joke if it wasn't hurting your dd, I bet she'll hate you as much as the other children hate their Dad.
Nobody likes to be told their mother drops their knickers to every Tom Dick and Harry.
Do you not care what the kids will call you?
I really can't believe how somebody could be so thick as to think it wouldn't harm their dc.
Maybe his wife will forgive him in time, maybe they can move on from this.
It doesn't sound like he wants to be with you OP, he's still having sex with his wife.

At least OP knows that MN think her dd is better off with her Dad and of course her actions are the scummiest.
Hope for the sake of the dc he drops you for the lies and deceit your brief relationship was.

Well I guess depending on how things evolve in the next few days he could move in with me?

Well I guess depending on how things evolve in the next few days he could move in with me?

Seriously?

Just go and read your thread title again.

"Just want to protect my daughter."

Daughter. You are saying very little about her here but will happily respond to questions about him and SILs and nonsense that doesn't really matter.

I agree with those who say we're feeding the drama but tbh I'd rather the OP come here for the attention needs rather than expose her daughter to it.

I worry that there is an incapability to put your daughter first. Well, that's how it comes across here.

Daughter coping well at school and yet you'll need to move her? No, OP I don't believe you're here for your daughter - that statement was making it all about you. Fine here but really do try in RL to put her needs first.

He could move in with you in a few days??!!!!!!!

You are the lowest of lows!!

If you were serious about protecting your daughter, moving this or any other man in would be the last thing you would. Ffs stop putting your own selfish, self centred needs first.

"Want to protect my daughter"

"He could move in"

Now you're just being silly.

He could move in..are you actually living on another planet?
Why the hell would you expose your daughter to this lowlife?

Cool story, bro.

Move in? Now? Really?

Terrible story!