I'm 35 today I've realised my marriage is over

[mammymammyIRL]

Dh emotionally abuses me.
He shouted at me & shoved me in front of our four year old ds for the last time on Sunday morning.
I don't want my 7 year old dd growing up seeing her parents not getting along
I don't want them to think Daddy's getting cross with Mammy is normal or ok

I can't do the rest of my life living like this.

Don't know mrs

I think so too be upstanding

Sorry, my brain not at its best so forgive me for not remembering things. What do you need to do to part company?

No bother mrs need for him to buy me out or sell family home. He's not in a position to do first without help and not willing to do second.

Can the second be forced by the courts?

I don't know there'll be a lot of to-ing and fro-ing between our solicitors I'd imagine. He suggested me staying in house until mortgage was paid & then we sell, I don't want that. 15 more years under his watch & then my children never have memories of living in Mammy's house only of visits to his, f*ck that!

Definitely fuck that! Sooner he realises that's not an option the better.

How's your weekend going? Have you got anything fun planned with the kids?

If you want a clean break and to sell then I hope that's what can be agreed on lass.

Good news on the caution mammy.
Stay safe x

We went to an activity yesterday and have another one planned for today & ds needs a haircut too, might do grocery shopping too they enjoy that though

Thanks to everyone for caring

They enjoy grocery shopping?

It's a beautiful sunny morning where I am, which is most welcome as it's been chucking it down with rain for days!

Do any friends or family know your situation with STBXH? Sorry I can't remember what you've said already.

Ya weirdos
They enjoy grocery deliveries coming too, I suppose the excitement of what food they'll be eating for week ahead

Yes a few friends & family know the whole story and some more some of the story.

H can never refrain from breaking wind, seems to be quite proud even ds just asked him why he can't keep it in

He's such a gem...

Ask if he got his money back from the Charm School.

good lord OP.. I've just read all of your thread....

a tower of strength is what you are Lady

Thanks Gemini for reading all the way through - court today for protection order

Good luck today mammy. How you got some sleep

Not a lot life woke at 2, back to sleep again around 5 & up now for the day

Ah bless you. Thinking about today?

Good luck today @mammy

I'll be thinking of you xx

Thanks everyone

I'm new to this thread, but I've read it all and Mammy you're doing grand. Well done for being so strong. Good luck with court today.