NC Dignity Club Part 3 - Stronger Every Day

[SweetBerries]

Here we go ladies. The place we come to do the 4 c’s - confess, console, comfort and consolidate. Every one of us is on a journey here but at the end of it, we become stronger better individuals who can be better prepared for future relationships - friends and romantically.

I’m so proud of you all xx

@Itsalottery Call me crazy but I read that as you doing yoga on the tube!! Sorry.

I'm dosing myself up with sleeping pills tonight, I can't do another day with only a few hours of sleep. I'm so emotional this evening. I can't decide whether gin was a bad idea or if I should have another one. Sod the time.

After meeting him for coffee today and saying noncommitally I'd think about dinner, I stood him up. He's been ringing almost non stop for hours. If this continues I'll have to think about changing my phone number. I've had it for 17 years so really didn't want to have to.

Zoo - block him rather than changing your number. Glad you didn't feel pressured into going for dinner.

Mine hasn't contacted me either.

It was me who said about yoga. I need something to calm my mind as really can get so anxious and thought fitness too. Do you mind saying who you watch on youtube? Thanks

Ha he zoo maybe I'll try that. Would make for an interesting journey. I hope you sleep better tonight. Can you not just block his number rather than change yours?

Thanks @anxiousnow I think you're totally right. Whatever I decide is right, I need space to get out of the fog.

I'm dosing myself up with melatonin to sleep. Otherwise I plan to go horse riding more (haven't done so since I got pregnant then lost the baby) and also bouldering. I'm slightly scared of heights but it sounds fun and it's not something we did together.

He's already blocked. But it seems that if you withhold your number, it bypasses the block...

While I'm on a whinge (sorry ladies), this day has been extra shit because I should have been 20 weeks today. It's not fair.

Although I saw this the other day which made me chuckle. Let's see if I can share it.

Oh blimey zoo that is not good. Is there no setting to not allow withheld numbers? That must be so stressful for you.

Oh zoo that's very sad for you. Xx

Google says no - all you can do is limit calls from numbers that aren't "authorised" (in your contacts list I guess) which I'm loathe to do as I'm trying to buy a house, so have all sorts of people calling from the estate agent, bank and lawyers, all on slightly different numbers.

Oldbook hadn't heard of smoke signals. Am going to look it up. Thanks

Anybody have any info on smoke signals or articles? I’m drawing a blank.

When I Google it it comes up with a bakery in north Carolina called smoke signals. Perhaps a trip there should be our first group excursion!

Me too Rhubarb

I think I found one. "Luvze" (interesting name for a website) says if your ex comments on social media they still want you.

Have you got the link Zoo?

www.luvze.com/signs-that-your-ex-wants-you-back/

I haven't read it - just saw the blurb on the google search, so it may be nonsense...

Morning everyone, checking in on day 21. Hope everyone has a good day today

I wrote a really long post and it didn’t post 😞 I’ll write more later but good luck today all, stay strong x

Thanks Zoo!

Morning Belonger

Checking in for Day 11!

Anxiousnow the yoga is 30 days with Adrienne. Have a go and let me know how you get on! I'd rather go to an actual class but that is tricky.

Basseting happy birthday. I hope you wake up happy and have something nice planned for today. Do not spend all day checking your phone for his text.

Happy Birthday Basseting. Hope you've an amazing day! I agree with Itsa don't spend all day checking your phone.

Morning Itsa. What day is it for you?

Happy birthday Basseting!

I wish everyone on this wonderful thread a very happy Friday.

Stay strong and fabulous!