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Blowjob every morning

213 replies

segc94 · 19/09/2017 19:23

What would you say/think if you heard a guy say 'my girlfriend/wife gives me a blowjob every morning'

I called bull shit.

OP posts:
schoolgaterebel · 20/09/2017 06:55

You can't assume her DP is trying to coerce her into daily blowjobs without witnessing their conversation. Not all men are self serving cunts.

terriblemistake · 20/09/2017 07:21

I'd think eeeuw - poor girlfriend / wife.

pictish · 20/09/2017 07:37

Where did the coercion come from? Some replies are unfair here. OP was making the point that this man is presumably full of shit. Why is she being accused of making light of sexual abuse? She didn't!
Sometimes you can't say anything on here without other posters having a go. If they haven't got a tangible reason to do so, they'll make one up.
Ridic!

BertrandRussell · 20/09/2017 07:54

"You can't assume her DP is trying to coerce her into daily blowjobs without witnessing their conversation. Not all men are self serving cunts"

No. of course you can't assume, and of course they aren't. But.

A lot of women on here, as in real life, who are in abusive relationships will ask for help or advice in a roundabout way. "My friend said X- what do other people think?" So giving an opening is a good thing.

IsMyUserNameRubbish · 20/09/2017 09:03

I've been married thirty years and I can count on no hands how many BJs my husband has ever had. Mind you, we're not really in to sex now though, sooner go out for a nice meal instead, I know I know boring but it works for us, he's still my soulmate and me his after thirty years, and to be perfectly honestly he can just about raise a smile as soon as he wakes up and the only thing going on my gob first thing of a morning is a nice cup of coffee.

Offred · 20/09/2017 09:43

Laugh?! Hmm

deadringer · 20/09/2017 10:42

I would assume she doesn't want to have piv sex with him.

BertrandRussell · 20/09/2017 11:45

"I would assume she doesn't want to have piv sex with him."

And instead of saying so, gives him
blow jobs instead.....

segc94 · 20/09/2017 12:24

Getyourrosaries
I can assure you it isn't the case, if my boyfriend wants more blowjobs he would definitely just ask out right instead of beating around the bush. It's the type of relationship we're in. Again I'm finding it so strange that people just assume something about there relationship when they haven't ever met either of them and are going off a post they found on the internet Hmm

Schoolgaterebel
This is the point I'm trying to get across but unfortunately it's going straight over some users heads 🙈

Pictish
Right?! thank you for seeing how strange this all is! I haven't once mentioned coercing until it was mentioned by someone else! I feel like other people are making there own issues into mine it's so strange! Thanks for the support I felt like I was going out my mind and my words were being manipulated! FlowersFlowers

OP posts:
sprockercrazy · 20/09/2017 13:13

Bloody hell some of you lot like to take massive leaps of imagination !!

How on earth do you go from a bloke saying he gets a BJ everyday to somebody being sexually coerced and the implication that it is obviously an abusive relationship??!

BertrandRussell · 20/09/2017 13:31

My post of 07.54 applies........

deadringer · 20/09/2017 17:14

I wasn't being serious Bertrand, a blow job every morning implies an interest in sex, I was being fasicous in suggesting it was an avoidance tactic.

sprockercrazy · 20/09/2017 17:31

I'm not sure it does. Giving somebody an 'opening' is one thing but deciding that this post is about coercion and sexual abuse is quite another ....

Babyg1995 · 20/09/2017 17:49

Me and dp have been together a couple of years now and we have sex daily and oral sex most days but if someone was bragging about it even I would think it was BS

BertrandRussell · 20/09/2017 18:19

"I'm not sure it does. Giving somebody an 'opening' is one thing but deciding that this post is about coercion and sexual abuse is quite another"

Not that it was. That it might be.

LoyaltyAndLobster · 21/09/2017 09:18

To be honest I would think the girlfriend is disgusting.

AdalindSchade · 21/09/2017 09:50

Just the girlfriend?

TonySopranosVest · 21/09/2017 09:55

When people say MN has really changed this is the sort of thread they're talking about.

LoyaltyAndLobster · 21/09/2017 10:15

@AdalindSchade - Yes the girlfriend, not to offend anyone but I think women that indulge in giving oral sex are just vile.

AnyFucker · 21/09/2017 10:18

That is offensive, LAL

Your misogyny is showing again

DeleteOrDecay · 21/09/2017 10:56

I'd think they were pretty sad and pathetic to feel the need to brag about it.

I'd also think he was over exaggerating somewhat.

Really Loyalty. And what about the men on the receiving end? Are they not just as 'vile'? What about men who give other men oral sex?

SonicBoomBoom · 21/09/2017 10:57

I think women that indulge in giving oral sex are just vile.

Confused

Is that both giving and receiving?

LoyaltyAndLobster · 21/09/2017 11:05

And what about the men on the receiving end? Are they not just as 'vile'? What about men who give other men oral sex?

I don't want to think about that because that just makes me feel sick.. but let me rephrase that, I think "anyone" who puts that part of someone else's body in their mouth is vile.

DeleteOrDecay · 21/09/2017 11:09

Then don't indulge in that sort of activity if you don't like it.

No need to judge others for taking part in a perfectly normal activity between two consenting adults.

DeleteOrDecay · 21/09/2017 11:10

I'm guessing you don't kiss your significant other either since you seem to repulsed by the concept.

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