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DH has died and MN Aunties are keeping things ticking over (Juan)

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TheWorldHasGoneToCake · 16/07/2017 20:40

Just starting a new thread on Juan's orders. She'll be back when she feels up to it.

Thinking of her on Sunday/Monday as always.

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Willow2017 · 26/08/2017 21:32

Evening all.

Book
Busy as ever no wonder you are yawning.

Cake
Sounds like an easy day for a change!

I have just pottered about doing washing, tidying, checking for homework and slobbing😀

Motorbike ride through in town tomorrow going to try to go if we don't all sleep In!

Have a lazy cozy evening all.

Horsemad · 26/08/2017 21:48

Good day here but I feel shattered for some reason.

It was very warm.

Watched DS play football this afternoon and then over ate Blush at dinner, so felt bad afterwards but blimey, the cake WAS good! Grin

Family BBQ tomorrow, so hope the weather stays fine.

Glad everyone has had a good day; let's hope tomorrow is just as good.

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 27/08/2017 06:54

Morning!

Early start as always, but just going to lounge about for a bit. DS is watching a movie.

DD back tomorrow, so looking forward to seeing her and the last stint of the holidays.

Hope you have a good day all.

bookbook · 27/08/2017 15:16

Afternoon.
It is beautiful here today.
Sat with a cup of coffee and a slice of cake.
had a very productive day so far .
Lots of weeding , and chatting at the allotment - runner beans, green and purple beans, cauliflower and raspberries picked.
So I have soup simmering for tonights meal, Cauliflower, broccoli, onion and potato blitzed with blue cheese) raspberries and apple crumble ready for popping in the oven as well. , and after coffee will embark on making some tomato and vegetable sauce to package in the freezer.
Hope everyone is okay :)

Willow2017 · 27/08/2017 15:58

Lazy day here.

Kids didnt want to go out so been slobbing in pjs and pottering. Kids cleaned their room (with a few prods) which is a bonus!

Got chicken in the oven for tea.

Weather ok if a bit cloudy but muggy and warm.

Book can I come to tea? It sounds wonderful, I love crumble Smile

We wnet up to the usual bramble place on Friday to find its been all cut back and the whole road has had a makeover! Still a few bramble bushes but not many branches. It was needed to be honest but it was a bit of a surprise Smile We went for a rake throught the little wood anyway and managed to pick a couple of brambles and will go back to try to get the ones still to ripen. There are other places to get them but not so prolific as that was. Wont get so much crumble this year!

Hope you are all having a nice day.

Thinking of Juan as usual on Sundays.

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 27/08/2017 17:34

Heard from her yesterday willow She's hanging on in there sends her love to you all.

What a pain that they did a clear up before you've had a chance to pick them!

We had a good day and made the most of the sun. Planning a NT day tomorrow and need to strip our bed & run hoover through. Thankfully it's just pasta and sauce for tea tomorrow - easy and everyone will eat it!

book do you have a chest freezer? think we've discussed it before I try and do a bit of batch cooking but not enough space...

bookbook · 27/08/2017 19:32

I have two Cake Blush - one enormous one in the utility room - its over 5' long , and the biggest one that would go in, that has everything I have made meal wise, ice cream etc, and another big one in the garage, which has all the fruit and veg I have picked and frozen from the allotment

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 27/08/2017 20:03

Sounds great! Have a good evening. What are you crocheting at the moment?

Willow2017 · 27/08/2017 20:43

I would love a small chest freezer but no room (even less room in garage now but that's another story)

I would do a lot more batch baking if I had plus all the fruit etc in autumn.

Cake thanks nice to know she is still KBO.

Been to TKD ds2 got new suit but its miles too big, too big to take up so got another to try. Fingers crossed.

Have list of jobs to do tomorrow. Think this jobless lark is brining me down and am getting lazy so being proactive. But have appointment at sschool plus shopping to get too so hopefully too busy to mope about.

bookbook · 27/08/2017 22:50

Just a little baby blanket fro Woolly Hugs :)
I've put it down now, ready for a hot chocolate and bed .
Willow - Its always good to have a list to work from - chin up, something will turn up hopefully.
I don't think I could cope without a chest freezer. I have spent years batch cooking . Its lovely to just grab something for a meal when I'm tired, or take something out when I know I won't have the time .
Thoughts and Prayers for all - sleep well

Chasingsquirrels · 28/08/2017 15:42

Quiet weekend here.

Called a friend in Saturday afternoon and invited myself round for a while, then saw my parents in Sunday and went for a wander round the Botanic gardens today with someone from my WAY group. Now sitting in the garden enjoying the sunshine - well in dappled shade.

My lavender is starting to green up, which is good as I wouldn't have put money on it surviving the cutback I gave it.

Willow2017 · 28/08/2017 16:30

Afternoon all.

Well the best laid plans and all that!

Meeting had to be put back an hour as teacher had to step in and take a class due to illness. But it went fine, he will speak to ds1 tomorrow and ask Physics teacher to keep an eye out for ds1 and I will get the usual school report next month so I can see then if there are any issues on there too. Hopefully new teacher will be appointed for the other class and will start after Oct hols. So fingers crossed alls well.

Everything else all went to pot after that Smile Did get a couple of things done plus shopping but nothing major. Oh well there is always tomorrow. But treated myself to a big caramelatte as had my freebie card, oh the decadence Grin Lost myself in my book for half an hour, bliss.

Very warm here, sky doesnt know what to do blue/cloudy/very cloudy/windy/warm all day.

Got home from shopping to the joys of living in the country - some kind farmer has been spreading muck more probably slurry, ooh my sinuses arent half cleared out!

Squirrels sounds like a nice laid back weekend. Glad the lavender survived!

Horsemad · 28/08/2017 17:08

Was confused by your post for a minute Willow, but I guess no BH today?

Really hot today, went for a good walk with DH but was glad to get home as was a sweaty mess!! Grin

Showered now and just relaxing before we eat.

Can't believe how good this Bank Holiday weather has been Shock

Chasing, the Botanic gardens sound lovely, never done them - worth a visit?

Chasingsquirrels · 28/08/2017 17:35

Confused me as well Horsemad Smile, slurry smell is horrible Willow, hope it goes soon.

Gardens were good, although not worth the trip from Lincoln! I posted on the widow group local Facebook yesterday to see if anyone fancied it and someone whose wife died in April and I have met a couple of times at local events replied so we met up and had a good wander then a drink and a cake.

bookbook · 28/08/2017 17:59

Afternoon all
well, I will be honest, been a bit weary today. I think the body realised it needed a rest :)
So a quiet day, pottering in the garden , and a bit of ironing. Other than making tea, and freezing the veg I picked yesterday, thats just about it :)
Chasing - I do like a wander around gardens. My birthday treat from DH last year was going around Harlow Carr and having lunch in the Bettys there :) ( he's not great at mooching around gardens, but tries, bless him} . Good news on the lavender !
Willow - thats a bit tough - we also get the waft of slurry around here, but at the moment, its every tractor available for sorting out the harvest. I don't envy farmers ...
Horse - yep, miles too hot. Should have gone to the allotment , but it was too hot for me, I'm a wimp with heat.

Chasingsquirrels · 28/08/2017 18:03

Glad to hear you listened to your body book and gave it a rest Flowers

TheWorldIsMyCakePop · 28/08/2017 18:15

hello ladies

We've had a hot and busy day out at NT property - seems everyone else had the same idea Hmm

Very hot, so ice cream consumed.

book I hope you have a quieter day tomorrow too - you certainly deserve it.

Willow I'm glad you saw the teacher and hope that you find something work related soon.

chasing I hope your week is going to fly past now, so that the boys return.

horse I've jumped in the shower again this afternoon too.

Not much to report here, catch up with you all tomorrow.

Willow2017 · 28/08/2017 18:44

Horse

No no BH here.

Sounds like everyone has had busy days (even Books quiet day is still doing stuff 😉 )

Wish it had just been a waft Book😀😉 it was everywhere. Joys of the country. Better than smog though.

We are all stuffed from roast chicken tea. Need to get organised and get ds2 to try on TKD suit. Ds1 doing dishes as he 'forgot' to come back downstairs to help with putting shopping away. He has no idea how many there are 😀😀

You will probably hear him..

bookbook · 28/08/2017 19:34

I have DGS tomorrow Cake Grin
Just sat down to watch A Close Shave ( Wallace and Gromit) - I still love it - crotchet may have to wait .....

Chasingsquirrels · 28/08/2017 19:47

What is TKD???
I think you said martial art it what are the initials?
We are lucky that a friend's older son does judo and we just get his old suits handed down when he outgrows them ☺

bookbook · 28/08/2017 20:37

I assume Tae-Kwon-Do Chasing :)

Chasingsquirrels · 28/08/2017 20:42

Duh! Of course. Thanks book, it's been bugging me every time.

bookbook · 28/08/2017 20:45

It took me a time to think it out!

Willow2017 · 28/08/2017 21:17

Sorry folks😶 yes it is Book it's just such a faff on my phone it keeps trying to correct me!

'4 weddings' is on haven't seen that in an age. Tissues at the ready for the funeral😭

Homework done. Ds1 did dishes and wiped down cooker and wiped down everything else. Poor lad loads for him to do then homework i am such a slavedriver😀

bookbook · 28/08/2017 21:26

well, an early night for me - likely to be rather busy tomorrow - everyone for tea too
Night, sleep well all
Thoughts and Prayers