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Shagged my boss

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LissyWine · 07/07/2017 16:02

...Actually, my bosses boss Shock. Last night we went for a "quick pint" which turned into an extremely drunken session and we ended up in bed. I'm so ashamed. I've fancied him for a while and he's a really nice guy but never thought for one minute anything would happen. Certainly not hopping into bed with him without a few dates first!! What do I do before I next see him, call him and just check everything's cool and that things won't be awkward?? Or just act like it never happened??

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WanderingTrolley1 · 09/07/2017 21:46

"I'm so ashamed". Yeah, right.

LissyWine · 10/07/2017 08:03

Are you pissed off that my shame has eased or something? How funny 😂

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LissyWine · 10/07/2017 08:04

And no, I'm not after a promotion. I was offered one 6 months ago and refused, I'm busy enough! And I wouldn't be stupid enough to accept a pay rise that nobody else is getting at the moment, seriously folks 🤣

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Zebrasinpyjamas · 10/07/2017 09:58

What a exciting weekend you've had OP. Have you had that first (awkward?) encounter in the office with your boss yet?Great thread!

nina2b · 10/07/2017 10:31

WanderingTrolley1

"I'm so ashamed". Yeah, right.

My thoughts too...

nina2b · 10/07/2017 10:35

I love the word onomatopoeic. If you syllabify it, it is easy to spell correctly!

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LissyWine · 10/07/2017 18:23

To clarify for the killjoys, I did feel ashamed after hopping into bed with my boss then the shame kicked in when the booze started wearing off... Do I want to stay ashamed or would I rather have a laugh about it?? I know what I'll choose Wink

We haven't seen each other as we were working in separate locations today but YES he was messaging me! It was all about the night but messages were skirting flirtingly close to the 'event'... all quite exciting really! Just need to decide what to do about the ex now... Confused

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LissyWine · 10/07/2017 18:24

Autumn rose some people are referring incredulously to my first post where I stated I was ashamed... for some reason the fact I'm no longer ashamed is really fucking them off 👍

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Dontwaketheneighbours · 10/07/2017 18:34

Nothing to be ashamed of at all
OP, sounds like you may get a mills and boon ending after all Grin very exciting!

WomblingThree · 10/07/2017 19:29

Jesus I got one letter wrong in a long word. Why am I being bitched at for it? Nina and Grand piss off and moan at the people who don't know the difference between your and you're or their and there, and leave me the hell alone.

AutumnRose thanks hun Wink

LissyWine · 10/07/2017 19:34

Womblingthree, I loved your description of the word! Wish I'd thought of it myself ha 😁 Xx

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GrandDesespoir · 10/07/2017 21:54

Party like it's 452. Hmm

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LissyWine · 10/07/2017 22:19

This thread is making me laugh more and more 😂

AutumnRose, I initially thought no, but when we were messaging my heart was doing little leaps, cheesy as that sounds 😂 Xx

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rascallyrascal · 10/07/2017 22:34

I'm happy for you OP! And a little jealous! I'm married with two little ones and this kind of excitement is in the dim and distant past!! Enjoy yourself!!

M0stlyBowlingHedgehog · 10/07/2017 22:48

This thread is genius - best reference to the Boston tea party ever, topped by the Lipton's comment, and the "first time I've been proud to be British since Brexit!"

So you're getting flirty texts now Grin

My workplace has so many couples who started out as drunken colleague shags then stayed together we even have an acronym for it! It is the British way. HR are only interested if one of you has line management responsibility for the other - and then only until such time as an alternative line manager can be arranged.

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WicksEnd · 10/07/2017 23:19

Well I may be wrong, but I'm guessing she doesn't lie there going, "crash, whizz, quack, cuckoo

If you shag him again, please let out a whizz quack cuckoo.