How would you feel? (Stag do)

[DiamondShine]

In a close circle of friends, all couples, the lads are currently on a stag weekend abroad so us girls got together to for takeaway and drinks tonight.

How would you feel if your the only person who hasn't heard from your man since they landed yesterday afternoon? Literally radio silence.

Just read this thread, hope ur ok OP

Wow that would be a deal breaker for me, Hope you are OK op x

I assume that his " meltdown" means he is staying in tonight on his own and using that time to call and mend the damage he has done

Sorry been sorting out my DD. Still no contact. Like I said I'm not going to get in touch with him again. Honestly couldn't care less about this girl/ woman. She's a nobody.

I'm just so embarrassed. Even my sisters have seen it.

Maybe your friends asking if he had texted, then making faces when you said he hadn't, might point to them knowing something you don't?

Maybe that's bollocks but it seems like they highlighted an area of concern you weren't aware of, before you knew anything about his behaviour.

Could they have been aware of possible previous stuff?

Sorry cross posted. Can't believe he hasn't contacted you.

Absolutely disgraceful he hasn't got in contact.
When should he be home tomorrow? I'm wondering if he'll go back to a mates house and continue to sulk..

Keep strong and try not to loose any sleep over the arsewipe.

How are you feeling?

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I can't believe he hasn't contacted you?! Unbelievable!

I would be absolutely livid. Especially as he hasn't even bothered to contact you. You and your daughter don't deserve this

Quite honestly, the only thing that would give him even half a chance to mend this IMO is if he got straight on a bus/train/plane and cut short this ill advised manchild bonding dirty dancing jamboree

He has some serious growing up to do and he needs to do it like yesterday

I agree with Anyfucker. My DH husband behaved badly on two lad's holidays (I found out about both at the same time). I felt like shit, I feel your pain.......but he was extremely sorry and said that in future he would put me and the kids first. Good luck x

OP I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry but I can't help laughing at Dirty Dancing jamboree..... I'm not sure a stag weekend has been called that before

I'm not feeling my best to be honest. I can't cry because I won't stop. So angry! I think the girls pulling faces was down to shock he hadn't been in contact. He would usually be the first to do it.

He's due back home tomorrow lunch time at the latest if he's brave enough to come back that is

*AnyFucker
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Nutshell.

Would any of the blokes partners tell you if they knew he'd cheated?

Has he read any of your conversations yet?

They are still showing as unread but he has been active on FB since so he knows. More than likely read it on the notification.

I'm debating on whether to wake DD and go to my parents so we are not home when he gets back. My DD doesn't settle well though there and it's been exhausting the last couple of weeks. She's been so unsettled with her teething and the humid nights.

I would like to think his friends would tell me the truth but I don't know 100%. I think the girls definitely would.

change the locks... give him a very big fright to arrive home too x

He has so little respect for you. Whatever about getting drunk, the gyrating againt some women and knowing you have seen it and going radio silence is beyond cruel.

I had an ex that just shut down when he did something wrong; laid low till things blew over. Can't believe, looking back, I tolerated it.

I know you are a bundle of mixed emotions, which is understandable. Hope you sleep ok and get answers finally tomorrow.

The silence speaks volumes, I think it would be better if you made plans for yourself and your child. He sounds horrible, Hope you manage to get some sleep x

Perhaps visit your parents and take a night bag in case you need it, or is it not worth the drive if you drove there and back in one day?

I think it is a good idea to at least not be there when he gets home. Make him wonder why you've gone AWOL.

I hope you're asleep OP and this awful situation isn't keeping you awake

Oh OP

He's being a prick, big time. I'm not as convinced as other posters that he slept with her, I think it's probably just what you saw in the video and nothing much more, but it's still in no way acceptable behaviour

Hope you're okay and that he does a lot to make it up to you

Still awake. DD is very unsettled and we have run out of Ambasol. Typical!

I had a missed call from him 10 minutes ago but I need to get things straight in my own head before
I listen to what he has to say. The fact so many people has seen it makes the matter worse. He can't deny it though, it's clear as day that it's him and he certainly wasn't being forced into that situation.