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My Dh died this morning and I don't know how to go on

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JuanPotatoTwo · 27/02/2017 19:18

But I will because I have to, because I have 4 incredible dc he loved.

I'm so so sad, didn't see it coming this time. Been lots of occasions in the past when we thought we'd lose him but he fought back and pulled through. Too much for him this time. One month today we would have been married 24 years.

Being self indulgent posting but I'm trying to put on brave front for dc even though 3 of them are adult and trying to be brave for me. We all loved him so much.

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ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 27/02/2017 20:29

Of course it's not self indulgent.

Sorry for your loss.

daisychain01 · 27/02/2017 20:29

Words are inadequate. Even though you had previous scares, nothing prepares you.

RIP your beloved MrJuanPotato Flowers x

lucysmam · 27/02/2017 20:30

I'm so very sorry to read that Juan Thanks

Notagainmun · 27/02/2017 20:31

I can only imagine your pain right now. Please know that you and your children are in the thoughts of us Mumsnetters. Flowers

IloveJudgeJudy · 27/02/2017 20:32

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, Juan. I can't imagine how you're feeling right now, but my thoughts go out to you and your family.

Juanbablo · 27/02/2017 20:33

So, so much love to you and your family Juan. I am so sorry.

Blastandtroph · 27/02/2017 20:33

Juan I am so sorry to read of the loss of your DH Flowers

GollyGumdrops · 27/02/2017 20:34

So very sorry to hear that Juan. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family, and wishing you all the love and strength you need to get through this sad time. x

CheckpointCharlie2 · 27/02/2017 20:36

Sad how shocking for you, sending unmumsnetty hugs to you Juan

EatingMyWords · 27/02/2017 20:37

I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

Pavlova31 · 27/02/2017 20:37

I'm so sorry that your husband has died Juan Flowers

youarenotkiddingme · 27/02/2017 20:38

I'm so sorry Juan Flowers

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VodkaLimeSoda27 · 27/02/2017 20:39

It isn't self-indulgent to post. RIP to your DH. My heart goes out to you and your DC from across the pond, Juan.

nimportenawak · 27/02/2017 20:41

I'm so sorry. Love to you and the family. Flowers

SugarMiceInTheRain · 27/02/2017 20:42

I'm so sorry. Sending you Flowers and a hug x

gingercoffee · 27/02/2017 20:43

Not self-indulgent at all. I'm so so sorry. Flowers

Lilybensmum1 · 27/02/2017 20:43

So so sorry juan take care of yourself and do whatever you need to do I can't even imagine how you feel.

Confused59 · 27/02/2017 20:43

I am sorry for your loss, it will all be a blur at the moment and you will probably go onto automatic pilot. Do take care yourself making sure you eat and rest as much as you can. If anyone offers to help - think of something practical they can do. 💐

derxa · 27/02/2017 20:44

Flowers We are all here to listen if you need us.

SpackenDeDoich · 27/02/2017 20:44

Juan I'm so very sorry for your loss Flowers

ladymariner · 27/02/2017 20:44

So very sorry to hear this, Juan love to you and your family xx

birdybirdywoofwoof · 27/02/2017 20:45

I'm so sorry to hear this. Flowers sending love

KurriKurri · 27/02/2017 20:45

I'm so very sorry Juan sending you love and strength xx

Dagnabit · 27/02/2017 20:45

So sorry for your loss X