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My Dh died this morning and I don't know how to go on

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JuanPotatoTwo · 27/02/2017 19:18

But I will because I have to, because I have 4 incredible dc he loved.

I'm so so sad, didn't see it coming this time. Been lots of occasions in the past when we thought we'd lose him but he fought back and pulled through. Too much for him this time. One month today we would have been married 24 years.

Being self indulgent posting but I'm trying to put on brave front for dc even though 3 of them are adult and trying to be brave for me. We all loved him so much.

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MidnightVelvetthe7th · 27/02/2017 20:12

So sorry for your loss juan xx

MrsChopper · 27/02/2017 20:13

Flowers so sorry for your loss juan

GMOOH · 27/02/2017 20:13

I'm an old poster under an NC and just want to say I am so, so deeply sorry for you all. Look after yourselves Flowers

woman12345 · 27/02/2017 20:15

Flowers sorry for your loss, wishing you and your lovely DCs lots of strength.

ohfourfoxache · 27/02/2017 20:16

Oh darling Juan Sad

I'm so, so sorry- absolutely awful news

You and your beautiful family are in my thoughts and prayers xx

HarveySchlumpfenburger · 27/02/2017 20:16

So sorry to hear about your DH, Juan. Flowers

Huge and very unMNetty hugs from me.

And don't worry too much about trying to put a brave face on. Let it out if you need to.

Topseyt · 27/02/2017 20:17

Flowers for you. I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you have some real life support nearby.

SpiralArchitect · 27/02/2017 20:18

Juan I'm so sorry for your loss.

Sending love and strength to you and your children. Flowers

Iloveantiques · 27/02/2017 20:18

I'm really very sorry for your loss. Try and take good care of yourself.

MayMiracle · 27/02/2017 20:19

This is so sad. I am very sorry. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you.

Sending you love, and strength, at this unbearable time. I hope you have friends around you, who can offer you support.

Flowers
RaspberryOverloadTheFirst · 27/02/2017 20:19

Thanks I'm so sorry. I hope you have people with you and your family in RL.

GirlElephant · 27/02/2017 20:20

Thinking of you and your family. Sounds like a lot of love so stay close to each other & look after each other.

So sorry for your loss

ShootingQuadrantids · 27/02/2017 20:21

Flowers take care Juan

choccybiscuit · 27/02/2017 20:21

I'm so sorry to hear this. Life seems very unfair sometimes. You must lean on family and friends during this difficilt time for support x x

2017SoFarSoGood · 27/02/2017 20:21

Oh Juan how incredibly horrible. I'm very sad for you and your DC. If ever there was a time to reach out this is it. We're all here for you, for a hand hold and an ear. If you want to share anything about your DH or you, please do. We'll be here.

Flowers and a virtual (((((hug)))))

Kandboys · 27/02/2017 20:23

So sorry for your loss xx

SquarePegRoundHole · 27/02/2017 20:23

Sending love and strength Juan Flowers

elQuintoConyo · 27/02/2017 20:24

Oh juan I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Big hugs Flowers

FeralBeryl · 27/02/2017 20:24

Oh Juan Sad** so sorry sweetheart.
For now, try to drink what you can, eat if you can manage it, rest.
Above all, remember to breathe.
May this process be as gentle as possible for you and your loved ones.
Sending love and strength xx Flowers xx

Godotsarrived · 27/02/2017 20:24

Oh that is so very sad. I just wanted to acknowledge your pain and grief.

ChishandFips33 · 27/02/2017 20:25

Sending strength to you and your family Flowers

So very sorry for your loss

BlessYourCottonSocks · 27/02/2017 20:26

I'm so very, very sorry. Please take care of yourself.Flowers

Miserylovescompany2 · 27/02/2017 20:27

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please try to take each day as it comes. Split it up into manageable chunks, surround yourself with people when you feel the need, also take time for yourself. There is no right or wrong way to greive. Remember all your happy years together and be kind to yourself. Xx

oliviafrombolivia · 27/02/2017 20:28

very very sorry to hear that, take care x

Troubleinstore · 27/02/2017 20:29

So sorry... x x x