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"Accidentally" slept with my boss (face palm)

325 replies

HaveILostMyMind · 05/11/2016 17:05

I don't know what to do. I work in a smallish team and we all get on really well. I was at university with my immediate boss about 10 years ago, we knew each other, but not all that well and I hadn't seen him until I started this job last year. I have just come out of a 5 year relationship and he has been single for the last year or so since his engagement broke up. We were working late to meet a dealine last night and were joking around, I have no idea what came over us but we were both being a little flirty and we ended up kissing. I went back to his apartment and we ended up in bed together. I never do this! Now I'm really worried about seeing him at work on Monday. Should I just act like it never happened or try and speak with him about it? I feel like a total idiot, and can't believe I did this.

OP posts:
BurnTheBlackSuit · 06/11/2016 07:55

I want to know too! But I can wait in case you're still at his..

Disappointednomore · 06/11/2016 07:58

She might still be there!

ememem84 · 06/11/2016 08:00

Sooo....??

LordRothermereBlackshirtCunt · 06/11/2016 08:01

I hope you're not shagging him rather than updating MN, OP. If so, you need to sort out your priorities.

LetMeHaveABloodyName · 06/11/2016 08:01

Ooh hope you had a good night OP! How exciting.
I met my fiancé at work, he wasn't my boss but was a manager there. As it happens, he's left and I'm still working with the same company but it was always nice seeing him everyday/getting lunch etc. Fuck what anyone else thinks!

Ilovenannyplum · 06/11/2016 08:04

I need to know how this ends

OP COOOOOOOOME BACK!

Shayelle · 06/11/2016 08:04

So fab!!! Hoe you had fun op!!! Is he a good cook?? Grin

user1471950254 · 06/11/2016 08:05

OP please update!

MartinRohdesBellybuttonFluff · 06/11/2016 08:09

Peacemaking.

Hope you had a great evening!

Samatamfabahaba · 06/11/2016 08:12

I slept with my boss. Now I live with him and love him more than anyone in the world and am currently growing a human that's half him! Also still work for him, directly under (snigger) him actually. I hope he's currently cooking you breakfast in bed! Wink

Feilin · 06/11/2016 08:17

O so need to know how this is going!

MartinRohdesBellybuttonFluff · 06/11/2016 08:22

Peacemaking? Peacemaking? Ffs!

Place marking.

Bumbleclat · 06/11/2016 08:25

Your boss would be in more trouble than you, I would start looking for another job asap...

80sWaistcoat · 06/11/2016 08:25

I accidentally slept with the boss too. Together ten years married for 5...

ddrmum · 06/11/2016 08:28

Hope you had a wonderful evening & a very lazy morning!! Good luck to the pair of you Smile

ThatsNoWayToSayGoodbye · 06/11/2016 08:29

"Accidentally"? Right - so we women really don't know what we are doing or what we want - for goodness sake get a grip.

I took it to mean 'unintentionally' rather than 'accidentally'. I think you can unintentionally find yourself doing something you hadn't initially set out to do without needing to 'get a grip'.

WhyASpoon · 06/11/2016 08:30

I haven't slept with my boss.

But I am placemarking...Grin

Hope last night was fun, OP, however it ended up.

Itisnoteasybeingdifferent · 06/11/2016 08:35

It's now Sunday morning...

How was Saturday night? Where did you stay? was it good?

On a serious note, it is never good to have a sexual relationship with work colleagues, especially your boss. I suggest you need to transfer to another team or change jobs. Sadly, it always seems to be the woman who ends up worse off if things go wrong.

GissASquizz · 06/11/2016 08:35

I need to know what he cooked.

Meetyhags · 06/11/2016 08:40

so OP was it a Good fireworks display last night, with lots of banging Wink ?

dailymailarecunts · 06/11/2016 08:41

Oww this is lovely! I hope you had a lovely evening Flowers

swimmerforlife · 06/11/2016 08:42

shamelessly place marking

onmybroomstick · 06/11/2016 08:45

How did it go?? Hope it went well

Mummyoflittledragon · 06/11/2016 08:48

Cmon it's nearly 9 o'clock. You've got a bunch of people, wanting an update. Or are you still in bed? Oooooh Blush

TheoriginalLEM · 06/11/2016 08:49

shes not updating because she is still there!

This has made me Grin