When a married ex wants to meet up?

[chickentikkasarnie]

Bit of a blast from the past, not seen for many years and was never a serious relationship. Have messaged here and there over FB but just very brief hellos and we're not really friends as such.

He wanted to meet for a drink and catch up and I just wanted to check there's nothing wrong with that is there?

I do go for drinks with married men sometimes but usually I know their wives /girlfriends and they are people I am close friends or colleagues with?

No ... And i wouldn't twist that comment just take it as it is ...

Haha! It was going so well.

Strange but true: it is actually possible to meet for a beer and keep your pants on.

Or even if you are knickerless on that particular day, it's possible to keep your legs crossed.

We are "taking it as it is" and not twisting a thing.

What kind of word do you live in, half ? It doesn't sound very nice.

I thought you would be able to tell ... Lol ... The word i live in is called tainted lol ...

Tainted Lol. Soft Cell hit updated for the Facebook generation.

Ghost

Most men I know don't cheat on their wives and most women I know wouldn't sleep with a married man and most drinks after work don't end in sex.

I made a decision when it happenned to me that the one thing he wasn't going to take from me was my generally positive view of people.

I hope think Half just meant she was glad it all went OK without, erm, incident that's all

You have got a great attitude and outlook on that situation... Round here most people change there partners more often then there knickers ...

Yer i did mean that ...nowyoucmo it wasn't ment bad in any such way ... I think im just from a differnt social setting ...

Oh heck

What's up AnyHecker? Haha.

Half it sounds like you need.....some kind of help. You're beyond jaded.

I wouldn't meet up.
You are both very different people to what you were as teenagers.
I think this is a really bad idea, he's unhappy in his present situation and is hoping you might become more than friends.
I would go so far as to say block him on FB.

Is this still going? I though OP was leaving 5 pages ago.

Glad you've all kissed and made up though, although i wouldn't wanna kiss Halftruth she sounds kinda hairy

Very hairy lol .. And green lol ...sorry im off to read this post about going out with a 16 year old...