MOST AFFAIRS ARE WOMENS OWN FAULT!? WOULD YOU AGREE?

[kittylette]

I think that most men have affairs because something is missing at home,

if a womans a great cook in the kitchen, a shoulder to cry on, a whore in the bedroom, then there shouldnt be too much of a problem!

i really do think this is the case, and will probably get slated for thinking so,

but this morning on 'loose women' they were all laughing about how they all faked headaches and say they're too tired to avoid sex, and how they only do it once a month and think of england!!
well no wonder men go looking for sex if its being denied it at home??

i always try my best to look good for my DP, and cook nice meals, and we have sex most nights (and i have 2 babies under 2)

just a thought!

kitty

trippety trapp...

Surely you jest kittylette.

WHAT?!

Love is what is needed, and a bit of trust and faithfulness.

Women shouldn't have to be some magical being so that men are good enough to be faithful - men should be faithful BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEM AND WANT TO BE.

Bol***cks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I take it you've never actually had any experience of it in real life.

Life is not that simple!

oh, i didnt mean just that,

weve been together yearsss, and love each other sooo very much,

but i just mean these women who were laughing about 'withholding' sex from their men, are just making it more likely that their husbands will go looking elsewhere?

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so a man might not get regular sex, or his wife might not put her make up on...due to PND. exhaustion, illness. stress, going back to work.....etc

so he has carte blanche to screw around.....

he doesn;t get waht he wants so can go and get it elsewhere

as maturer said..if only life were so simple

They're not witholding sex: they're having sex when they feel like it, not because their partner feels like it.

And what the hell does cooking have to do with it?

im not ttc! no way! lol

kittylette - are you actually Gerry Hall & did that tactic work with Mick Jagger?

but I so agree, & vice versa, why if mr Mac Dywfwt didn't have dinner on the table & a ribbon in his hair when he got home every night, not to mention him trying to satisfy my voracious sexual appetite - I might just look elsewhere

I know my dp doesn't just see me for sex and that our relationship is deeper than that.

Its about give and take on his side as well as mine.

Oh I quite agree. I cook DP's meal for him for when he gets home from work in crotchless panties and no bra. And when I get home from a 12.5 hr shift I always make sure I pounce on him. Poor little darling, couldn't have him going without now could we?

Nutter.

What a very low opinion of men you have.

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TBH I could never post a thread about how my DP could never have an affair and how loved up we were and how I have found the 'secret' to keeping it working - for the very reason of how silly I would feel with egg on my face a few short years down the line potentially.

Gotta be a troll.

well he makes the effort for me!

he goes to work all day, comes home helps out with the housework if ive not managed it all, usually brings me a pressie, flowers ect,

im not acting like i do everything for him with no return,

it works both ways,

if he was a bum and didnt work ect.. then id probably be unhappy and on the look out for a better man,

so he works, helps me out ect to make me happy

and i do this for him

can't think of a response right now...too busy trying to pick my chin up off the floor...

PARPETY-PARP

i didnt take my pill cause i didnt have any, a huge mistake,

and i had sex with a condom, which split on 2 occassions and a bit of a fumble

hardly TTC

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guh!

PLEASE dont get me wrong,

im not saying we should be a slave for men, and wear crotchless panties whilst cooking and cleaning,

but surely you must agree that if a woman (or a man refuses his wife!!) refuses time and time again not to have sex with her husband, he will surely turn else where?