MOST AFFAIRS ARE WOMENS OWN FAULT!? WOULD YOU AGREE?

[kittylette]

I think that most men have affairs because something is missing at home,

if a womans a great cook in the kitchen, a shoulder to cry on, a whore in the bedroom, then there shouldnt be too much of a problem!

i really do think this is the case, and will probably get slated for thinking so,

but this morning on 'loose women' they were all laughing about how they all faked headaches and say they're too tired to avoid sex, and how they only do it once a month and think of england!!
well no wonder men go looking for sex if its being denied it at home??

i always try my best to look good for my DP, and cook nice meals, and we have sex most nights (and i have 2 babies under 2)

just a thought!

kitty

I'm going to tell your vicar kitty!!!!!!!

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i said it was pathetic to tell strangers your problems and wait for the 'oh poor you' responses,

not to give personal info,

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Kitty

Dh said Ok but it'll cost you £250 for the night

then he said to tell you to eff off

Coz other people have soul mates too, not just you

This thread has gone mad everyone. Kitty, by posting your other "bi" thread you have contradicted yourself a little. You keep banging on about how happy you and your partner are etc, but clearly you are not entirely happy: "was just wondering how others cope? having a side of you that needs to be repressed?"

If you are having to repress an essential part of your being then you cannot be totally happy (plus you are looking for ways to cope, so must be bothering you on some level) and the longer it goes on the more it will fester and could affect the relationship.

Therefore no matter how much sex you have, fab meals you cook etc, your dp could conceivably have an affair because your attraction to women could give him an issue with his masculinity (just hypothetical here, don't shoot me).

Can you live the rest of your life without some sort of romantic involvement with a woman? You say you are more attracted to females than males!

being married thou isn't about how often you have sex, nor is it about if I don't do this for him he'll look here there/everywhere and I have to put out to please him/have to do things fpor dinner he likes etc.

a marriage is about comittment, love and understanding, comprimise. a better questrion may well be how has your relationship changed since getting married - cos I tell u now our's has evolved a million times over, to an extent you do get comfortable being married etc.

i wnated to comment on this but it was so long ago.
anyway it made me feel better cos my sex drive is higher than my dh and i was feeeling really bad about it and have been considering an affair for years