Being called a miltf, would you be insulted?

[gottafindaman4yagirl]

Was called a miltf by a younger guy who I had one date with. I found it insulting and told him so.
Would anyone be flattered? Seems like a teenager thing to say and not a 26 yr old man and not respectful.

What NannyOgg said. !!!

I honestly can't see the problem in being paid a compliment - it was obviously intended as such by OP's date. And texting is for abbreviated communications, not for writing pages of poetic prose and it's difficult to fully express oneself via SMS.

But I'm bemused by the reactions of posters on here, ''how dare he insult you like that.... extremely distasteful', etc. FFs, lighten up, you aren't at the vicars tea party now you know.

You're a mummy! Yet I wouldn't mind fucking you!

Compliments don't get much better than this.

(Not)

It doesn't have to be interpreted at face value, it just means an attractive older lady. You need to get a sense of humor and stop taking everything at fdace value. Life doesn't have to be so serious.

I find the contrast between the attitudes of the two posters at 19:15 and 20:08 most interesting

I don't think it would take too much of a wild guess to see which one is more attractive to a mature woman [wink

I don't think it does just mean that

Yeah, them humourless harridans. No wonder they never get a shag, eh. Tch.

Realise you're being flippant PP but misogyny is a serious thing. If they're think fucking is good first date conversation, chances are they have no respect for women.

Dried up old hags, I bet it's closed over, eh ?

Them MILFs though, they're up for it. Gagging on for it.

When she turns round you can see her age?

Oh no how awful to have lived for a while.

OP the MILF thing wouldn't bother me but his other comment shows he just wants a shag.

It seems you want more so time to end contact with him totally.

If he had said the MILF thing then said no you are sexy but I really like you as a person then that would be different.

I often find myself recommending to people here they 'raise the bar' if they want to avoid more disappointing partners. This is a good example of what I mean. The guy who thinks MILF is a compliment is WAY below the bar.....

Cog...you do normally have a different ending tagged onto your name, don't you ?

You never hear it used the other way round though do you? DILF just hasn't taken off as a concept in the way that young guys lust after older women.

Indeed, Hansel.

To paraphrase the mostly wonderful Caitlin Moran.....

You can tell whether some misogynistic societal pressure is being exerted on women by calmly enquiring, “And are the men doing this, as well? (or having it done to them)” If they aren’t, chances are you’re dealing with what we strident feminists refer to as “some total fucking bullshit.”

Yes it's my Christmas moniker :) It's an homage to a line from 'Ding Dong Merrily on High"

Ah. I thought I wasn't going christmas crackers < boom boom >

No one gets it....

I didn't get your other name < fick >

Any sorry it's mean but she turned out to be my bully at work so no love lost there on my part!

The guy did apologise and I just said I found being called a milf a total turn off. Its funny because on our date he seemed slightly shy, was well spoken and we had good conversation. He messages like he's a different person. It could be that I'm just a woman who cant take a compliment, lacking a sense of humour. :)

Or you are a discerning woman but not yet quite secure in that

Hope you got away from her then, Super