Would you ever be able to forgive

[TheNewClassic]

a One night stand?

If your partner had a one night stand.

Potentially, yes. I could forgive it more easily than a protracted emotional affair.

Depends. Long term relationship, where we were exclusive? Not a bloody chance.

FWB or a fuckbuddy, meh, that goes with the territory.

In a long term relationship on a drunken night out..

No that would be a deal breaker for me.

By forgive I mean stay with them.

If I was in a committed long-term relationship, no I wouldn't. Being exclusive goes with the territory as far as I'm concerned. Other people can be more accepting of betrayal but I couldn't

No

No.

"Drunken" is a very lame excuse for behaviour which is inexcusable. No-one that I've ever known has been so drunk that they're incapable of making a decision to betray a partner while still being capable of having and maintaining an erection to shag some stranger on a night out.

Forgive this and permission has been given so you could discover that it becomes the thin end of the wedge.

Not a chance

No way

Yes if married with kids and otherwise all was well.

If in a relationship with no commitments then I would boot him to the kerb.

Theres no way to get over that is there.

no way

Why do you ask OP?

Definitely no way wouldn't trust the bugger ever again

Nope.

The trouble with the 'I was drunk' excuse is that it is extremely easy to get drunk.... and do it all over again. What kills relationships is not infidelity but loss of trust. So whether it's a one night stand or a fifteen year affair, I don't think it really matters if the trust is gone.

He cheated on me a few weeks ago.

I found out. I said I will try to make it work as long as he can regain trust, prove he actually cares about me. But I don't think that will work and thats hurting because I love him but he effed up our future and plans.

No. It's completely unforgivable in my opinion.
Are you ok op?

The I was drunk has turned into he wont go out clubbing until I can trust again and when he does he wont drink to that point.
I feel let down as I don't have any family its just him.

No!

I am devastated but I don't know what to do

Not a chance. We both agree on that.