Sex on a first date? OK or not OK?

[SoleSource]

Yes, I'll follow my gut instinct if I meet this man I have been chatting to online for the last six months, but I feel that I might sleep with him, as I have been celibate for so long.

Is it outdated to feel that I shouldn't sleep with him as it isn't the tradiitional way to behave?

No idea really if we will want to sleep with each other after we meet in reality.

Just want you views on this please.

Yes he has clearly! i couldn't believe he text that after reading this thread!!!

Binned

Eww

He is a knob.

Don't even bother.

That's why he ain't had a shag in 12 years! Cos he is a dick!

Twat features...

He'll probably have another 12 years to wait now...poor baby.

Never mind, SoleSource, you win some, you lose some. And some you just don't want anyway.

Oh no :(

what an arsehole.

Arse.

Oh well :(

He'd have probably been rubbish anyway

Ho hum. Man with Ishoos, evidently. He's either got a tiny willy, smells like an unemptied bin or actually doesn't much like sex but wants to present as 'normal' ie the fact that he isn't having any sex is Women's Fault.

Better luck with other men, OP.

Will he indeed? So lovely of him to inform you of how it is going to be . Disappointing, though, when people turn out to be such a let down. Fingers crossed the other two more than make up for the failings of this one.

Good riddance.

Will probably join you in online dating after a talk I had today with now ex-dp. lol.

I wouldn't.

But wouldn't judge you for doing it.

Sigh.....cant say i'm surprised.

12 years.

He obviously doesn't know how to treat a woman.

Slept with DH on first date. Have now been together 14 years. If it feels right, I'd do it. If not, don't. Dating "rules" are stupid...

My son is a very well adjusted considerate young man thank you very much.

Every young girl I have come across (since I work with teens) has had sex with a boy in the hope of "keeping" him if she does. Not one of the boys has wanted anything to do with her after that.

Go figure.

Im not talking about two teens that have been seeing each other as boyfriend girlfriend for a bit, Im talking about meeting and sleeping together straight away as the title of this thread implies.

yeah because their parents have told them that girls who want to have sex with them aren't worth keeping.

Turned them in to twats basically.

No, peers have done that.

All the women on this thread who are with their partners years after the "ons"? Anomalies?

Yes, their peers and their peers just invented the idea themselves with no parental influence and no influence from society they just made up the idea themselves.

Interesting.

have you been on the dating scene recently? Some things never change unfortunately and sleeping with someone too soon is one of them as much as women would like to think it has.

I never said its right, I said its the way it is.

My lovely dad always said to me.... "keep your hand on your ha'penny and your cab fare home. Very wise man he was too

Oh and what PaddingtonDuck just said. Men you meet on first dates are "strangers" no matter how long you've been speaking to them for.