Sex on a first date? OK or not OK?

[SoleSource]

Yes, I'll follow my gut instinct if I meet this man I have been chatting to online for the last six months, but I feel that I might sleep with him, as I have been celibate for so long.

Is it outdated to feel that I shouldn't sleep with him as it isn't the tradiitional way to behave?

No idea really if we will want to sleep with each other after we meet in reality.

Just want you views on this please.

For all I know this guy could be married! Who knows....then I will kill him.

Thats my worry - that he is married.

Well it would explain why he hasn't had sex for 12 years!!!

eh ?

Its a joke AF, and it made me laugh.

But getting back to the 12 years - its also ringing alarm bells with me. Im just not convinced the bloke in the OP isn't a wanker. But then he'd have to be if he is married and hasn't had sex for 12 years.

I can't be bothered to read the thread, but I am going to guess that 3 out of 700 responses said it was not ok. Could anyone confirm please?

Brabra, yes the majority said it was ok.

Except for those who said it was disgusting and our vaginas will dissolve, or something.

That sounds serious Lois, maybe we should heed their advice. Or maybe we should be ashamed that actual women have such beliefs.

Erm will my fadge fall of?

Oh gawd, better make the most of it then

Yes, use it while you may. For tomorrow, it will shrivel and drop off because you done sex on a first date.

Actually it's the chaps I feel sorry for. After a first date and a night of unbridled SEX, they are left like the shed skin of a snake, parched and dead, and their wee-wee is full of shame.

Is that what it is???? I thought the condom had fallen off!!!!

Silly thought that people will wonder what they are missing if they have only slept with one person.

Update

I have called it off. The man is a loon. On wards and upwards!

Oops, Sole! Congrats on spotting it. Best of luck with your ongoing SoleSourceShagSeekingScheme.

Ah, that's a shame. Better luck next time. At least you found out before you spent the money on petrol for nothing.

Sex on a first date eh ? tricky one, there's no hard and fast answer, all comes down to the circumstances. For example in my teens it was fine, in fact it should have been manditory, now that my daughter is a teenager it should be a hangable,castratable,dump in a bath of acid-able offence.

Like I say, tricky one!

Apparently I do not trust him, Trust has to be earned, he refused to speak to me. He doesn't text/call me during the evenings, lots of excuses as to why, I have a very strong, strong, in fact I am 100% convinced he is married

THE LOWLIFE, CHEATING, SCUMBAG CUNT!!

Dont hold back now Solesource, just let it all out. You know you'll feel better for it.

How big is your ego and how puny your respect for others if you demand trust from someone you haven't even even met in person yet, whilst acting suspiciously? I agree wholeheartedly with your sentiment, Sole, but must unfortunately take issue with your use of expletives in this instance. You missed a few.

I just can't fathom out why declaring that he hasn't done the business for 12 years would work as a bargaining tool. Was he hoping for a sympathy fuck?

I imagine Neil, that it gave him the excuse he needed to keep Sole at arms length while continuing to get his ego stroked with a bit of extra-marital attention. What an absolute tosser.

Get yourself online Sole, there are plenty of dogs on there too, but also some genuinely nice blokes looking for more than an illicit shag. It's not as bad as it's made out to be!

Oh dear, what a prize pillock. Still, at least he gave himself away before you shagged him, rather than when you were stuck with him in some hotel in the middle of nowhere.

Never mind. Onwards and upwards.

Either that or he's a bit of a "two pump Charlie" and needs the 12 year thing as an excuse for having a hair trigger.