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Is anal that awful?

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multitasker · 31/08/2006 21:05

DH would love to try rear passage, the thought slightly horrifies me - pain etc; Am I missing out on something?

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kama · 01/09/2006 13:05

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MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:06

what that children can read?!!

kama · 01/09/2006 13:06

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 01/09/2006 13:06

I think she meant about bum burgling.....

nailpolish · 01/09/2006 13:07

i know it surely must happen , but i just cant imagine violent sex every being consensual by both partners, even if they say so

IMO

MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:09

some people do enjoy it though....

kama i was only giving my own personal view, its up to you what you do in your own spare time but I do think it is a bit much for a parenting website especially when you are eating your breakfast

Blossomhill · 01/09/2006 13:10

Personally I find it odd that people discuss there personal sex lives.
I wouldn't dream of going into detail and dh would be horrified if I did.

sallystrawberry · 01/09/2006 13:12

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sansouci · 01/09/2006 13:13

expat, where are you?!

MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:16

why do I need removing from the thread

nailpolish · 01/09/2006 13:17

heres what i think

lots of people are dying to ask questions about taboo subjects, but are afraid to

its safer if you have an idea of what you are letting yourself in for

where better than a forum where you kind of feel you are amongst friends, even though we are all (mostly) complete strangers? like MN?

but i kind of agree, 130 in the afternoon is maybe not the best time

fattiemumma · 01/09/2006 13:19

but the convo was started at 9:05pm.

its only those who are complaining its too early in the day that have bumped it back up again today.

kama · 01/09/2006 13:22

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MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:23

oh of course I do kama, for heavens sake

nailpolish · 01/09/2006 13:24

dont turn this into an argument

fio stressed it was her own personal opinion

kama · 01/09/2006 13:27

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MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:27

its ok nailpolish people have said I am rather like a les dawson charachter spreading rumours.....

MrsFio · 01/09/2006 13:28

its is offensive to make assumptions about people based on one sentance kama

nailpolish · 01/09/2006 13:28

ok then

sallystrawberry · 01/09/2006 13:29

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sansouci · 01/09/2006 13:29

There have been some pretty hair-raising threads, comments, etc on MN over the years. This is pretty tame stuff by comparison.

btw, I didn't find anal sex to be particularly violent.

anal sex is a little like eating horsemeat. Some people do it as a matter of course, others are completely revolted and horrified by the very idea.

sansouci · 01/09/2006 13:30

Will you all please stop bitching at each other?

fattiemumma · 01/09/2006 13:31

WHAT? i cannot beleive that even athread about Anal sex can kick off!

your right Kama that some people (not you in particular mrsf) do sometimes word their posts as if to vilify those who HAVE anal rather than simply about the act itself.

that can be offecnsive to those who do partake and enjoy such an act.
but i dont think anyone is spreading rumours.

yes those who havent tried it shouldn't really be spreading grapevine comments about quite extreme reactions to anal sex.
i know a fair amount of people who do have anal and enjoy it, i havent heard of any of the horror stories that have been mentioned here though (other than the morning after being painfull to poo)

by all means comment on your opinion of aal but there is no need to become offensive....and if you are easily offended WTF are you doing in an ANAL thread???

nailpolish · 01/09/2006 13:33
Joolstoo · 01/09/2006 13:34

apologies for bumping the thread this morning. I was just catching up from last night and didn't think about the time of day.

For myself, I have no issues with the discussion per se (although I do agree with Blossomhill about discussing personal sex lives) but introducing deviant (imo) acts via links is a bit much.

Now I will leave you to it.