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Beyond pissed off. Do I LTB??? Wwyd?

216 replies

madcatlady444 · 30/03/2014 07:54

My DH is in an am-dram group, last night of show last night, his entire family staying at our house to watch the show. He hasn't come home from the after-show party, it's the next morning now and isn't answering his phone, but can manage the occasional text. I am so angry I am shaking, what do I tell his family?? Everyone is going to be getting up soon, I am so embarrassed. He's expecting me to make lunch for his whole family (10 of us in total) on fucking Mother's Day but he hasn't come home & is too cowardly to answer his phone. He says in his text he is with other people in the group, but I don't really care. He is just taking the piss, and i have had enough. I really really want to LTB, wwyd? I would really appreciate your advice mumsnetters, am I overreacting??

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Pagwatch · 30/03/2014 19:39

"like knitters at the guillotine."

Exactly.

Foxsticks · 30/03/2014 19:49

I'm not sure if you will be able to come back to this thread but I'm so sorry this has happened to you and your daughters. I second what a previous poster said about your dd2 being really brave in calling the police. I hope you get lots of rl help and support Thanks

DustBunnyFarmer · 30/03/2014 20:34

Likewise, I was sorry to see your update earlier - it must have been very distressing - but it does make your next course of action clearer. There is no going back from this,

LiberalLibertine · 30/03/2014 20:56

Yes, in this case can rubber necking Jeremy Kyle fans people please not place mark, it's very distasteful.

Op, I've just returned to see your horrible update, I'm very shocked and so sorry it's come to this.

If you need to talk we're always here, name change if you like, best of luck love.

mrknowitall · 30/03/2014 21:05

100% he's had a few beers, and done a bit of gear and was scared to come home.

MaxsMummy2012 · 30/03/2014 21:09

Mrknowitall - there's an update further in which I think you've missed, the bastard came back and attacked the op and her dd1 so her dd2 had to call the police. Hope you ate doing ok OP, take care of you and your girls. X

MamaPingu · 30/03/2014 21:24

What an absolute dick!! Angry
I get so frustrated as I don't have a clue what's going on in their minds when people do this sort of thing?!
Inviting HIS family round and having OP cook and play host alone after he has got pissed and cba to return home. Then coming home assaulting his wife and daughter?!

Some people are seriously fucked in the head Angry

cloudskitchen · 30/03/2014 21:29

Thinking of you and dd's op Thanks

MrsKermittSmith · 30/03/2014 21:30

Stay strong OP.

DakotaFanny · 30/03/2014 21:34

Hope you're okay OP. X

ResponsibleAdult · 30/03/2014 21:39

OP, poor poor you and your girls. How awful for you. Complete and utter unequivocal twat behaviour. Angry on your behalf.

Trust your instincts, he was being an arsehole and has now disgraced himself. Your girls and his family can now see him for what he is.

Monday, solicitor, get as much advice and support in RL and on here as you can Thanks

JeanSeberg · 30/03/2014 22:02

Is this real?

Ruprekt · 30/03/2014 22:03

Jean....why would it not be real?

NachoAddict · 30/03/2014 22:15

So sorry to hear your update op. Hope you and your girls are ok and weren't seriously hurt.

Women's aid are really helpful. Speak to a solicitor tomorrow to get the divorce ball rolling and consider a harassment order or non molestation order. Sorry not certain of the correct term but basically to prevent him coming near you your girls or your home.

JeanSeberg · 31/03/2014 02:58

Jean....why would it not be real?

Who knows. Hope all are safe.

KeatsiePie · 31/03/2014 03:48

Omg. I just saw this. I'm so sorry.

As everyone has said, I hope you will start a thread in the other place if you want support with your next steps. I hope you and your DDs are all right.

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