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Beyond pissed off. Do I LTB??? Wwyd?

216 replies

madcatlady444 · 30/03/2014 07:54

My DH is in an am-dram group, last night of show last night, his entire family staying at our house to watch the show. He hasn't come home from the after-show party, it's the next morning now and isn't answering his phone, but can manage the occasional text. I am so angry I am shaking, what do I tell his family?? Everyone is going to be getting up soon, I am so embarrassed. He's expecting me to make lunch for his whole family (10 of us in total) on fucking Mother's Day but he hasn't come home & is too cowardly to answer his phone. He says in his text he is with other people in the group, but I don't really care. He is just taking the piss, and i have had enough. I really really want to LTB, wwyd? I would really appreciate your advice mumsnetters, am I overreacting??

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MoominsYonisAreScary · 30/03/2014 13:26

What a bastard hope you and dc are ok op

lunar1 · 30/03/2014 13:29

Hope you are ok op. Glad he has been arrested, were his family there for it all?

Unimaginativecow · 30/03/2014 13:32

Hope you are all okay. What a knob.

usualsuspectt · 30/03/2014 13:38

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redshoeblueshoe · 30/03/2014 13:43

What a bastard. Cake Thanks and for later Wine

NMFP · 30/03/2014 13:44

Cripes.

Good luck. Hope his family support you through this.

Pobblewhohasnotoes · 30/03/2014 13:49

Bloody hell OP. I hope you and the kids are ok. Was his family there? What a bastard.

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Pimpf · 30/03/2014 13:49

I think you have your answer. It seems like you are already a single mum, so where's the difference if he isn't living in the house?

How old are your children? Have you been honest with his family? And if his brother is judgemental, it should be with him, not you, you have done nothing wrong.

DumbleDee · 30/03/2014 13:51

I'd tell his family to go home after telling them what he's done. Then I'd go out with the kids. I'd also then make plans to ltb. Selfish get.

RedRoom · 30/03/2014 13:55

Thinking of you OP- what a horrible thing to experience.

douchbag · 30/03/2014 13:57

Big hugs op dd2 was very brave to call the police. I hope your all ok. Had his family left when this happened? Xx

youarewinning · 30/03/2014 14:01

Oh n. Shock Sad

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I wish you all the best. Thanks

saintlyjimjams · 30/03/2014 14:02

Bloody hell. Hope you & the children are okay.

CheckpointCharlie · 30/03/2014 14:07

Oh god. That's is so so shit. Hope you are all ok.

Did his family witness it too?

SirRaymondClench · 30/03/2014 14:08

I'm so sorry he assaulted you Sad

What an arsehole.
Please keep safe Thanks

Clarabumps · 30/03/2014 14:08

Jesus! Hope you are okay OP. Thanks

DumbleDee · 30/03/2014 14:13

Totally missed previous page grrrrrrr iPad. Sorry op that this has happened to you. Well rid x

smorticus · 30/03/2014 14:16

I hope you and your dds are ok and safe. Have his family left or did they witness the assault? Hopefully they are decent people and will support you in this rather than make excuses for him.

RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 30/03/2014 14:22

Hope you're OK OP

Obviously you're better off without him Thanks

GimmeDaBoobehz · 30/03/2014 14:22

What a complete cock.

How old are your girls?

That's amazing they were so strong.

What has his family said about the matter then?

Custardo · 30/03/2014 14:22

were the family there when it happened
xcxxxx so sorry xx

ceecee32 · 30/03/2014 14:25

Its a shit time.... you and your DC will get through it. Hopefully the police will tell him not to come home

Good Luck

Zamboni · 30/03/2014 14:25

So sorry OP, hope you and the DDs are ok.

RockCrushesLizard · 30/03/2014 14:29

What a horrible person. At least he hasn't tried to be contrite, so you saw his true colours.

So sorry OP

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