just had fab date, but.... he clearly wanted to come back to my place...

[theendishere]

that's it really! surely most guys would realise that's not an option on a first date?!

[BitOutOfPractice]

I whole heartedly agree with the poster who said that it shouldn't be this tricky at the start. The OLD site is only the first point of contact. After that it should be just like meeting in RL in a pub or whatever. Call each other, text, arrange to meet...no games or pissing about. I don't really know why OLD seems to bring out this bad behaviour :(

I'd do out with lovely pub man again if I were you.

[theendishere]

Well surprise, surprise - I've not heard from him! I think a week is along enough to decide if you want a second date!!!
Pub guy texted yesterday and we have arranged to go out next weekend - I did tll him a coule of weeks ago if we met again prob just as friends so hope i'm not leading him on by going out Physically he's just not my type at all

[HerdyHerdwick]

Massage Man will very likely pop up again completely out of the blue acting as if you two have been in contact all along.....
See how it goes with Pub Guy.

[theendishere]

yes, I wouldn't be surprised Herdy !
I'll see how it goes, but don't want to lead him on either as he seems like a nice guy:) I know people who know him too which makes me feel "safer" with hi if that makes sense?!

[theendishere]

Well, what a surprise still no response from him - another one to put down to experience. It feels like OND is a waste of time atm, but also good to know that some of you have met your partners this way!