What is the ettiquete regarding who pays of a first date?

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Just went on a nice date. No major fireworks but he was sweet and with a good, intelligent sense of humour! I have come feeling good apart from the fact that I payed for my own, coffee, cake and entrance to a tourist attraction. Is that ok in this day and age although I like the thought of being romanced....(spoilt princess emoticon).

p.s. good on you drfayray - hope you have a lovely picnic with your Heathcliff lookylikey!

I'd go halves on the sofa, but I am generous like that.

Thanks Donut! ...I am going to ask him tomorrow. He works strange hours (immigration) and is also building a boat on his off days so quite busy.

I plan to have lots of sexay food and I am a good cook so...that should even up the he pay I pay thing!

He's just offered to buy me a sofa too!

having a social expectation that man buy meal for woman because she female is pwincessy

Sm its princess not pwincess. Unless you are Jonathan Ross on the vodka. But either way that must be the seventeenth time you've used that line on this thread.

Jonathan Ross on vodka,yes I imagine him as Bon viveur fag and a voddy