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Last train to Loserville Part 2

999 replies

LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 21:55

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

OP posts:
imtheonlyone · 07/04/2013 21:59

Welcome to your new thread and new name GrinGrin
I don't want this to sound awful but I am addicted to reading your thread!! Your Loser of a H never fails to amaze me and neither does the way in which you are dealing with everything.

Keep going - you're amazing!

bountyicecream · 07/04/2013 21:59

Loving the new name Wink

AnyFucker · 07/04/2013 22:00

here is a clickable link to the old thread

Arcadia · 07/04/2013 22:01

No advice but you are inspiring! Cheering you on, yay you! Smile

Cuddlydragon · 07/04/2013 22:02

Love the new name!

NotMostPeople · 07/04/2013 22:03

I've been following your thread from the begining and am in awe of how amazingly you've handled a horrible situation. Even DH who normally filters out any talk of MN asked how you were getting on. Keep strong and keep posting.

TimidLivid · 07/04/2013 22:03

Also addicted to ur kick ass attitude and how you have risen above it all

PoppadomPreach · 07/04/2013 22:04

I keep thinking of the proclaimers.....

Lochaber no more
Loser no more

Good song, good name change

ShootingStarsss · 07/04/2013 22:04

Your doing amazing.
Love your new name and thread title Smile

kinkyfuckery · 07/04/2013 22:06

Love the new name.

So, what's the plan for this week then OP?

madonnawhore · 07/04/2013 22:07

I've been following your other thread too. And I really think it should be preserved on mumsnet forever as a textbook example to others of how to handle yourself with total class and dignity in the event of finding out your husband is a spineless piece of shit.

When all of this is over and the dust has settled, you're going to look back on how you've conducted yourself throughout this whole ordeal and feel so proud.

At least, I hope you do. It's such a breath of fresh air to see a woman who truly knows the value of her own self worth. And act on that knowledge accordingly.

Keep going, we're all right behind you cheering you on and having girl crushes on you a little bit.

DharmaBums · 07/04/2013 22:08

Was also following your previous thread and need to post that I too think you're an amazing, courageous woman! You're an inspiration to many of us that have/are going through similar issues. You sound like you've brought up some wonderful DC's too, so all credit to you.
Keep on being strong OP!

forgetmenots · 07/04/2013 22:09

Agree with everything madonnawhore said - well done LNM :)

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LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 22:12

Thanks Anyfucker. I knew it would fail.

You lot have made me blush! Poppadom, I keep getting that song in my head too! It wasn't intentional, I promise. Grin

OP posts:
WildThong · 07/04/2013 22:14

I'm following you too. Hugs and strength to you!

CajaDeLaMemoria · 07/04/2013 22:17

I love the new thread and name :)

Original poster
LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 22:17

Kinky, no real plans. Back to work on Wednesday :( don't want to but needs must. Hoping dd3 is crusting over ( the spots that is) then can get out and about again.

OP posts:
tightfortime · 07/04/2013 22:18

I was watching the other thread and replied on there but delighted to see you start a new thread as you are an inspiration and lesson giver in 'not settling for his crap' for other mumsnetters out there in that same awful situation.

Bravo.

KatyTheCleaningLady · 07/04/2013 22:19

I wish you all the best luck in the world. Your husband has lost someone precious and wonderful.

sleeton · 07/04/2013 22:21

I am glad that you have started a new thread LoserNoMore and very very glad that you continue to cope. You inspire with your strength and dignity.

You're a star!

Inertia · 07/04/2013 22:21

Love the name change!

BriansBrain · 07/04/2013 22:28

Brilliant name change and so glad you are so positive if not drained because of his inability to comprehend the fact he is a dick.

QuintessentialShallots · 07/04/2013 22:31

Good name change!

TwinkleSparkleBling · 07/04/2013 22:33

Just wanted to add my thinking of you too.

Some men are complete tossers, aren't they?

Not cherishing an amazing woman. He is most definitely the loser.

captainbarnacle · 07/04/2013 22:37

I too am addicted to your thread - cannot believe after ignoring you for the crucial first two days, he now thinks that there is an 'us' to discuss on Wednesday! Deluded dickweed.

Your girls are so lucky to have such a brilliant role model for a mum x

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