His mother should've swallowed

[LouP19]

Is this title too rude?!!!

I appreciate everyone warning caution. Trust me, I'm using this place to rant and rave and swear and all that,... at the moment I haven't done anything. And even if I do manage to locate him (with some first class help!) I might not necessarily do anything with that information just yet. But I would just like to know, that's all, instead of driving round looking for his car all the time,.... Just this knowledge will make me feel a bit more empowered.

All advice on here is very helpful - the calm, the practical, the hysterical, the funny, the 'been there done that', it's all amazing and I value all of it.

Hoping this afternoon goes well for you Lou, as someone already said MN will be here to support you no matter what you decide to do.

good luck x

Hope all is well hun and that your meeting/scan goes well and you get the info you want.

Good luck for today and whatever you decide.

Delurking to say thinking of you this afternoon. You have joined Chocoraisin on the "how to deal with a twunt of a (soon to be ex) husband" gold medal podium.

Good luck today lou thinking of you xx

Agree with desperately! Good luck today, hope your impressive strength gets you through!

Oh here you are!

Lou, best of luck for today. Thinking of you and sending you positive vibes for WHAT EVER OUTCOME AND DECISION IS BEST FOR YOU.

Glad to read about the locksmith too.

Thinking of you, Lou x

Have been lurking from the very beginning but want to add my good wishes for this afternoon.

As someone who had years of trouble both TTC and through miscarriages, do think about what YOU really want and what is best for YOU in this incredibly difficult situation, through no fault of your own.

Take care x

Thinking of you lou - be strong (although, based on how well you've handled the last few weeks, that's clearly already a given!) x

Have followed this entire thread from beginning and like everyone else Lou, I admire your strength. I also think you have had some excellent advice on here and it's the very essence of MN that got me through a crappy experience of my own 5 years ago. Can I just suggest one thing? DearNigel has made some very valid points about your privacy. Can I suggest that your thread is moved to OTBT? I've done this before and felt much better after.

Best of luck today x

Please can we do a virtual Mexican wave to show Lou MUMSNET love?!

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Hoping today went as well as could be expected lou. Lean on your amazing friends and family if you need to, their strength is your strength. You're in my thoughts x

Another one de-lurking to say that I hope things went as well as they could this afternoon.

Have been thinking about you today... Hope all is well.

I have just read all four threads! Lou, you are an inspiration. I really hope that things are going well for you. {{hug}}

Hope you are doing ok Lou xx

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Please, mums, can everyone delurk and post a GO LOU?
Hoping she will feel warmth of support from us all?
Thanks!

Go Lou hope all went well today

Delurking....Huge amount of warm support and hugs.