His mother should've swallowed

[LouP19]

Is this title too rude?!!!

I appreciate everyone warning caution. Trust me, I'm using this place to rant and rave and swear and all that,... at the moment I haven't done anything. And even if I do manage to locate him (with some first class help!) I might not necessarily do anything with that information just yet. But I would just like to know, that's all, instead of driving round looking for his car all the time,.... Just this knowledge will make me feel a bit more empowered.

All advice on here is very helpful - the calm, the practical, the hysterical, the funny, the 'been there done that', it's all amazing and I value all of it.

Hope this afternoon goes as well as it can.

Thinking of you.

Thinking of you Lou. Just want to backtrack about 15 pages to say that the Australian chapter of your fan club had better have a chutney party as well.

Lou, delurking to let you know that another random stranger will be thinking of you this afternoon.

I've read your threads with slack-jawed amazement both at the chutney weasel's behaviour and at your strength. You can get some very nasty misbehaviour by entitled tossers in universities (like one head of department whose second wife - ex-OW- was a lecturer in his department, as was his latest OW - since the wife knew about the affair, it apparently made for interesting departmental meetings...). Chutney boy is in a class of his own, though.

Delurking to say I'm thinking of you for later, all the best xx

Another delurker, wishing you all the best for this afternoon. Will be thinking of you x

good luck today x

Crackers and cheese - a perfect meal
Hope you're doing well today Lou ((hug))

Also delurking to wish you all the best today Lou
You are in my thoughts

Another delurker, just wanting to say: I think you are doing fab and good luck today! Will be thinking of you.

Posted very briefly on the first thread but have been following since day 1. Just wanted to say that I'll be thinking of you today. Am amazed at your strength, humour & courage.

Just wanted to say that I'll be thinking of you this afternoon!

Positive vibes for you today Lou.

We should get chutney t shirts. I am seriously looking into designing one. It could be a mumsnet "in-joke".

I have also just found out what Chutney Beaver means...

Good luck for today, Lou. X

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"I have also just found out what Chutney Beaver means..."

And I had to go and google it, didn't I?

Thinking of you today Lou, I had this decision 15 years ago. It's an awful one to make but I hope the scan and counselling help to give you some clarity. Xxxx

Hi Lou, When your friend comes over and you present her with cheese and crackers, I wonder if she will say " Have you got any chutney?"

If she does, it will make you spit your tea out with laughter BUT, may be best not to mention this thread to RL people in case it ever gets back and goes against you in court etc.

Hope you have a good day x

I'm tempted to google Chutney Beaver but the Computer is slap bang in view of ds's. I take it it's gross and has nothing to do with water loving wood munching cuddly animals?

Delurking too just to let you know that I will be thinking about you today. x

...so then I had to google it !! (boak)

A Google search for chutney beaver will give you the answer without anything graphic appearing. But ick! How unhygeinic!

(Sorry, Lou.)

Chutney beaver is the act of anal then pulling out to finish in the vagina. For anyone scared to google...

Good luck Lou xx

wishing you well today, Lou. xxx