His mother should've swallowed

[LouP19]

Is this title too rude?!!!

I appreciate everyone warning caution. Trust me, I'm using this place to rant and rave and swear and all that,... at the moment I haven't done anything. And even if I do manage to locate him (with some first class help!) I might not necessarily do anything with that information just yet. But I would just like to know, that's all, instead of driving round looking for his car all the time,.... Just this knowledge will make me feel a bit more empowered.

All advice on here is very helpful - the calm, the practical, the hysterical, the funny, the 'been there done that', it's all amazing and I value all of it.

Lou's exdh hasn't a clue who Babylon and her DH are.

They aren't going to go up to him and say 'oi, I'm following you, cunt' or sit outside his house, or get in his way, or make a show of themselves, or anything like that.

I don't see how casually observing someone who doesn't know you from adam, at a distance, getting a quick glance at the street and house number they vanish into presents any danger.

I would do it in a heartbeat for any Mn'er if they were local to me, Alone! Alone at 3am if need be. Alone at 3am while wearing a sherlock holmes outfit (ok I lied about the last bit)

Personally,I think you'd look very fetching in a Sherlock Holmes outfit

Lou,

Just adding my support for tomorrow . Will be thinking of you . You have come so far , in such a short time .

tuckingfits :o

Sorry if I am going to bring up something that might have stopped hours ago but I have been following Lou's thread since the first one but just really busy with kids during the day and catch up at night on my phone and struggle to type on there. But a poster is so annoying that I had to stop at page 14 before finishing the rest of the thread.

Firstly Lou. I am amazed at your strength and the way you are keeping yourself up during this difficult time. I do laugh at your humour sometimes and get upset at the things Chunt has been doing. I do not have any more advice to add to what other posters have posted already. And yes I know some may have been carried away with some comments but you are a mature responsible adult who comes across as someone with a sound mind. I have been getting annoyed at Portofino's post. In the previous thread she insisted how Chunt is "not a dangerous" person but just someone who has been treating you badly and therefore will not be hurting or killing your cats. Yet earlier this evening and when Babylon suggested to help track him down she has been going on about Babylon being potentially hurt. So come on Portofino. Make up your mind. Is Chutney Twunt dangerous or not! Why don't you just hide the thread or go and annoy other posters.

I must go to bed !

Lou, I hope that everything goes smoothly and according to plan for you tomorrow. I will be thinking of you.

Lou, good luck tomorrow darling. You'll do great, no one has more strength than you.

P.S. LOVE Babylon's new name.

Only problem is my mental image of you has gone from a curly haired woman with gentle features to Tom Selluck.

AKA...A whole lotta chest hair. If you do find ChutneyDouche, sneak in and put one of your chest hairs in his Chutney

Fabulous point Eva

Thinking of you tomorrow Lou xxxxx

Thinking of you later today Lou

Really cross that I missed sweary Lou tho

Thinking of you today Lou. Hope it's all OK, stay strong x

Sending good wishes and strength for today Lou. I hope the counselling session helps you figure out your path.

Lots of love ......

Thinking of you today Lou. You only need to decide what is right for you, sod everyone else.

Good luck and best wishes for today Lou.

LurkingandLearningLoves where is your head at?

I have a moustache like Tom Sellick, but sadly no chesthair

I actually have long straight hair, a pointy nose and cats eyes wondering if I am actually a witch

Oh and no idea why my post was deleted Last night

Sorry MNHQ again

Was so tired I can't even remember what it was about, let alone the actual content

thinking of you today lou.

I don't think my post yesterday was very helpful and I'm sorry for that.

What I should have said is that I hope the scan today goes smoothly for you and that you get all the info, advice, support and help you need to make the right decision for you, whatever that may be.

You are in my thoughts x

Good luck this afternoon Lou.

I've agonised about writing this next bit, but I've decided I will, just because it might help you. If you're serious about terminating - or think this is the more likely route you wish to take - you might not want to look while they're doing the scan. I just think it would be very emotive and perhaps sway you in a direction you don't want to be swayed in IYSWIM.

Sending strength for you today, Lou.

Juneau I second that- we had to have genetic investigations and the sonograpgher was a twat could understand why I didn't want to look. I need eedd to protect myself and allow a clear decision once results were back.

Lou, I just want to wish you luck for later.
Remember you don't have to make a decision today, today is all about establishing the facts and options, so don't put yourself under pressure!

Posted too soon.

Just wanted to say we'll all be routing for YOU this afternoon, it's going to be a tough one but you're made of tough stuff!

Morning Lou, I've just caught up from yesterday early evening, shame Babylon didn't confirm what you thought.

Hope you managed some sleep in preparation for what will be a difficult day.Will be thinking of you .