Silly s'leb crush.

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I feel like a right plonker for writing this but I need to get it out somewhere and don't really want to bring this out in RL.

I'm a married mum but have a daft crush on someone and I got it bad.

I feel really stupid. I know its normal to fancy people but I feel like a bloody teenager and can't stop thinking about him. My husband thinks it hilarious and its become a bit of a joke in the house, which is OK, but its pretty embarressing really. I mean I'm nearly 30, not 13 :(

I dreamt about this person last night (and yes as I'm about to type this I know how daft it sounds) but I woke up feeling like it was real and I 'miss him' now :s

I know it will eventually pass but just wanted to talk it out and get some reassurance that I'm not having a midlife crisis or some kind of meltdown?!

Surely its 'normal' to feel like this? Even at 30?

Who is it????

Just an actor, I saw him in a film a while ago and thought he was nice but since seen 2 more films in the last few weeks and am smitten now.

It's not benedict cumberbatch is it? Because he is mine. ALL MINE :o

Christian bale? ALL MINE. I'm greedy :o

Ah can I join you in your teenage shame? I'm exactly the same. I get full-on crushes, then forget all abotu them. My last one was Robert Pattinson but now I can't bear him. I can't tell you who my current one is...

Well I'm a 43 year old lesbian who has just discovered Life on Mars and Ashes to Ashes (where was I a few years ago?!) and am completely and utterly smitten with Gene Hunt - I don't even know his real name . I'm watching a couple of episodes every night and will cry when I've finished them and probably go back to Life on Mars and start all over again

Jason Statham . I'll watch his films on repeat for hours...

Lol Pootles! I had a massive Edward crush (book edward) but Rob never did it for me, I've never even seen the twilight films.

Its Chris Hemsworth. He is so gorgeous, its just painful!

Ah go on, tell!

The funny thing is, the new one is so opposite to last one... Its eddie izzard

I don't really watch TV, so just googled gene hunt .... i hope you have better taste in women Dotty ;) lol

Eddie Izzard is gorgeous. Although I think I'd have to break his heart and dump him for the Gene Genie...

Pootles I LOVE eddie, ive fanced him since i was about 14!!

i fancy anyone though men, women, men dressed as women, women dressed as men, old men!! Hahah.

Sorry OP I've just googled Chris Hemsworth he doesn't do it for me at all. Wierdly I do see what you mean re gene hunt - even though I imagine he would smell I still fancy him a bit!

me too

oh I've just googled Chris Hemsworth - yes he's very easy on the eye. I take it you've seen Thor and The Avengers....

Hands off Gene Hunt!

Fire up the Quattro!!

Thor 3 times, vengers twice and snow white just the once (upto now) lol.

Hes not really my usual 'type' I usually go for slight, brunette blokes.

Chris is very pretty and huge and not what i usually go for but I'm just besotted with him completely. I wish my bloody head would give me break from him though, its not like ive not got aa million things to do per hour in real life... and last nights dream was just cruel... you hear that subconcious?! cruel!!!

Gene Hunt would smell of Brut.

I have had very, ahem, involved, dreams featuring certain well-known men. Quite entertaining apart from the one with Jeremy Clarkson .

Was it a good dream though? I had one about RP and he just turned me down! In my own dream! How unfair.

Oh Christ, I've got loads, don't worry about it. although Chris Hemsworth is a dim-looking himbo

I often daydream about bumping into my crushes and so impressing them with my wit, brains and beauty that they whisk me off for cocktails and dinner and the rest.

It keeps life interesting and gives you nice things to think about while sitting on the bus.

Gene's all mine - i'm all keen and fresh and new to it and finally understand those Tory election ads

Yh, It wasn't a down right dirty dream (grrrr,lol),just lots of kissing and cuddling and lovliness in a bath no less!, which made me feel worse looking at DH this morning!! pmsl.

Oh yes exactly the same Lady Clarice. Because of course I'm terribly witty and beautiful

I also think it's much healthier than fancying someone in real life, it's nice and harmless.

Pmsl, at RP turning you down, thats so shit!!!