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Gay40 · 09/04/2012 21:32

This is a thread for women who unexpectedly (or not) find themselves attracted to another woman.

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pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:31

sleepless I'm getting quite excited on your behalf.

As there's nowt occuring between me and my WIQ at the moment, I'm going to have to get my thrills elsewhere Grin and a bit Blush

sleeplessindenial · 11/04/2012 23:32

Grin well I can definitely see what he saw in her idiot to have left her she's lovely

( I think I know why it didn't work out although I haven't asked him - she is a fair bit 15 years older than him)

Gay40 · 11/04/2012 23:33

My lord. If you ever wanted to get back at your ex...what a way to go about it.
I don't think it is that, though. I don't have that Feeling about it. But it is strange.

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pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:35

well no he's not an idiot because he left her for you, and I'm sure you're lovely too.

Are you about the same age as him? My and Likeas WIQ are both a good ten years older than us.

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:35

sleep, so are you 15yrs younger than her, or also older than your dp?

Fridgemagnet · 11/04/2012 23:36

Cherries - love your story...was it love at first sight on the internet page or very first meeting? Good to hear such positive and BRAVE women, all power to you (all)

pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:36

oh god, I think Likea and I are joined at the brain tonight! Smile

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:36

polly cross opst re age! aren't we sharp haha..
G40 - yes, that's what i mean, wouldn't he be shocked!

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:37

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Loveisthemessage · 11/04/2012 23:37

Sleepless - your story is very exciting and extremely promising. I can safely say we are all going to have a sleepless night waiting with anticipation of your next post-rendezvous update.

Gay40 · 11/04/2012 23:38

I prefer older women too. Maybe it's that which we all have in common, rather than a label Grin

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pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:39

Yes you'd better keep updating now sleepless or our heads will explode with anticipation.

sleeplessindenial · 11/04/2012 23:39

I am the same age as him do she has a good few years on me too.

I have less respect for him now, what sort of person leaves without a word after a 1 year relationship.

It is very strange, she is very like me and we share a lot of interests. Dp obviously has a type!

She text me to say goodnight which was nice Smile

Maybe I am just making an idiot of myself Blush

pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:40

Gay you might be onto something....

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:40

polly yes, not surprising with that long history of crush-agonising..Smile

Loveisthemessage · 11/04/2012 23:41

I am an older woman Grin

pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:42

Sleepless if you're making an idiot of yourself, join the club!

I was all for threatening to go and melt an extremely large easter egg on my WIQ last week, in a (desperate) effort to pin her down on a date, but Gay talked me out of it.....

No, hold on......

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:44

sleepless don't you think this will affect your r-ship? also knowing how he behaved as you descibe? sounds inevitable tbh.

Gay40 · 11/04/2012 23:44

I TOLD you to threaten her with the egg !!!!!

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sleeplessindenial · 11/04/2012 23:44

I am meeting her, well not her, her eldest child tomorrow at 12ish and he is dropping her youngest child to me as she isn't feeling very well so i am taking him to the park with my dc as they got on well (same age as one of mine) so she can get some rest.

I don't think she would have her Dc anywhere near me if she was playing games.

Then I will see her when I take her dc home.

I hope she isn't reading this as I am totally outed if soConfused

likeatonneofbricks · 11/04/2012 23:45

Loveis I'm really surprised, thought you were the youngest, you are so ideaistic/excitable!

pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:46

Gay I know! I chickened out and just threatened her with wine and pork scratchings instead (class)

Perhaps I should've gone for the egg-threat after all. I just didn't want to appear too pervy...

Loveisthemessage · 11/04/2012 23:46

I'm old enough to know better Grin

sleeplessindenial · 11/04/2012 23:47

I think it will affect my relationship, part of me thinks I should just cut contact with her and concentrate in trying to forget that he had been so cruel make the most of the relationship I already have, I have a baby to consider in all this.

I really want to see her though

pollyblue · 11/04/2012 23:47

Oh sleepless that's a perfect opportunity to get some brow-mopping in if ever there was one.

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