Blow Job troubles- bit exteme warning

[GlitterHo]

sensitive subject _I've never been any good at them, I too much of a gag reflex I can never take * ahem full length without gagging.

I feel really bad as I'm letting him down on my side of the deal as he doesnt get satisfied properly.

the other night was just messing around and he just grabbed the back of my head and was literally like shagging my head, felt like I couldn't breathe and was gagging everywhere told him to stop eventually, started crying felt really bad I should be able to do it :(

Any tips on how I can round it??

Bite him next time he fucking does it!

You arent letting him down ffs... jeeeze...

Seriously? cant you see that this is wrong and he is being abusive here?

Anyone can give a good blow job without turning into Linda Lovelace!

Firstly he shouldnt be grabbing your head and forcing you to blow him.Thats not on and would serve him right if you puked all over his bits!.
You dont need to take "full length" to satisfy a man imo. Try licking up and down or tongue swirling,sucking on head etc. ALways works for me.

plenty of hand action while sucking and tongueing the head normally produces the desired fountain!

He is being totally out of order. That sounds horrible for you, please don't blame yourself or think that you're 'not good at blow jobs'. Your partner sounds like a disrespectful twat.

What did he say when he stopped?

Actually, fuck what he said, even if he got down on his hands and knees to apologise he's still an asshole.

Tips?

Find a better man.

So does he treat you like a blow-up doll in other areas of your relationship then? Outside porn films, giving a blow-job is about using your hands and tongue as well, not choking or gagging, because sex is meant to be mutually enjoyable, remember?

I'd be more upset my bf orally raped me tbh in your situation.

What an arsehole. Men don't forcefully gag you until you choke every where and cry, and carry on. Dump him.

he just said its alright , you're not ..bad..

I do genuinely think he got a bit carried away, hes never done that before in nearly 2 years.

So he made you gag and you were crying, and here you are asking for blowjob tips What did Mr Darcy say when you were in tears then?

He's been watching far too much porn, oh and yes again, he's an arsehole.

Stop making excuses for him!

he did say sorry did I hurt you, a bit of a tarded thing to say but he did apologise

You were gagging and crying but he didn't stop until you told him to, but you are worried you let him down?

Sounds like he gets ideas about what good sex entails by watching porn, good blow jobs are not about him throat fucking you until you practically vomit ( not unless you are both into it and even then it has to be worked up to).

Did he apologise?

Bloody hell, you dont need tips on how to give a better blow job. He needs tips on how to treat you better!

Carried away?

This wasn't your fault, GlitterHo. Even if your technique was horrendous, nothing excuses what he did.

Why are you trying to excuse him?

think its time you 69'd him and push down really hard so he struggles to breath, keep him there until you have finished, if you know what i mean!!!

Do you really think that's helpful Jessicadrew?

What do you mean, 'your side of the deal?' What deal is that then? Subservient, please him any which way he chooses?

I'm seriously concerned that a 21st Century woman can suffer that and still think she needs tips. Here's a tip, dump him. Learn to value, really value yourself, and don't engage with shit men who treat you like a 'thing'.

God, who the fuck does he think he is?

Mal u never know, it takes all sorts

I agree the best tip would be to dump him.

Really Jessica? You think that's good advice?

OP - I've been together with my DP a lot longer than 2 years and he's never done it. If he held his dick in my mouth till I cried I would leave him. Because he would be an asshole, and not the loving, respectful partner he should be.