Dumpling no more - only the strong survive and we did No.2

[Teaandcakeplease]

At first I was afraid, I was petrified
Kept thinkin' I could never live without him by my side;
But then I spent so many nights
Thinkin' how you did me wrong
And I grew strong

This thread is for ex dumplings Any dumpling that feels like she has "mostly" moved past crisis into an "almost" sorted state can post and chat here as we continue our quest for serenity with a lot of laughs along the way and support.

love the idea of not valentines messages.
Here goes.
You were my husband
but now you're my ex
rubbish at loving
selfish at sex
hopeless at cooking
crap with a car
wherever you are today,
it can't be too far.
Not happy with final couplet but off to bed!!

I read that too! Had to stop myself from writing something a bit nasty
I must admit to writing on a thread in AIBU where a woman was moaning that her DH bought her flowers for VD and gave them to her after they had been shopping in the house doorway. Just said it was a luxury problem when you're a single mum and people who's husbands have left em don't get flowers and to try and put things into perspective. Then I felt a bit rude! First time I've done that.
Ooh Getting - I can feel a new vocation as an anti-valentine card writer:

Thanks for spending our money on gear
Thanks for leaving the kids and me here
And now that it's Valentine's day
I really would just like to say
I feel much better now
Your new woman's a cow
And you were crap in bed anyway x

Evening all.

Sov & Patience, sorry to hear your respective twats were no shows today

Off, oh joy of joy spending valentine's day with xh! If it's any consolation so am I. Two of my dc's have a school play tomorrow night so will be sitting side by side with xh low & behold.

Actually have an even better one for ye all. I bet I am the only dumpling that can say she got a gorgeous bunch of tulips for valentine's day which xh paid for . When dc's were with xh today he called into a friend of his that has a flower shop & ds asked xh to get flowers for me . When ds was telling me about this xh was actually in the car as I was dropping him off somewhere & I was saying to ds how kind & sweet it was of him to get me flowers etc & he said "they're for valentine's day tomorrow" .

DS, hope your feeling a bit better ((Hugs))

Getting, glad dd had a nice time

Kate, a big happy birthday to you. Agree dating after divorce is certainly not for the fainthearted !!

Goo, sorry you've been triggered again by exbf on facebook ((Hugs))

Waves to Pink, Rom, Mumfun & Happy

Well feel in pits of despair over Norm tonight. I can't believe he never responded to my email or contacted me again. I was so sure he would contact me begging forgiveness & for another chance & telling me how much he loved me . Never realised how much I'd fallen for him

Your cock is so small
It just has to be said
But you've got a great big one
On top of your head

Oh Starting - big hugs love. I really really feel for you x

Loving the poetry

Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
I loved sucking ur cock.
Wtf is wrong with u ?

Goo, at your poem & thanks for hugs

I gave you my heart
And you took it away
Can I have it back please
I'd rather be gay

Patience slap on wrist for lowering the tone of thread

lol Patience lol!!!

Your bedroom always smelt of febreze
And your cock always tasted of cheese
Your nails were too long
And I hated that thong
It made you look a bit like John Cleese

Sorry that's really lowered it

Hugs to starting ,wish we could all meet up in the spring ,maybe London again x

Aha - London baby! Got a plan that I'm going to do a mini tour of the country this year, visiting dumplings Patience is first - woo hoo! x

Patience, I will be finished college in early May & hope to make it over after that. Xh has offered to take dc's overnight & if things continue to go ok I think I'll allow the overnights so that would be childcare sorted

a call to Clinton cards marketing department ? No ??

Starting thats a tough break as they say - he may yet call ?

Going to set up my own cards company - Googoocards :)

And I'm going to do bumper stickers too. And little badges. And mugs and T shirts.

U broke my heart
But I'll recover
Best part is
I don't see ur mother
i'll miss u mate
U were my friend
But the drink
And drugs drove u
Round the bend

OUR MARRIAGE
RIP
2003-11

Ah Patience. That's sad and very touching actually. X

Ah well life goes on,children to rear , dogs to walk and self help books to read.

Patience

And nights out to arrange and lippy to apply and Geordies to try and understand when slightly pissed on a field trip :)
You girls are all amazing and you've all helped me so much.
My valentine goes out to all of you xxx

My first T shirt will read:
I ain't got no luxury problems

Dont be sad ,it is a gift ,letting go of old patterns ,some people never get the chance,no its onwards and upwards for me .he was just lucky to bump into such a quality co dependent,as co dependants go I was a bit of a purist.I could have won awards.