Teach me how to swallow....

[deemented]

Yeah, i know

But, i can't. And i really want to. Tried it once and it was pretty grim, though wasn't with manshape, and it's put me off completely.

I do want to do it though, and i know he'd like me to, but i know he's fine that i don't, iyswim?

Oh dear, sorry I will have to hide this!

Have a glass of something by the bed, let him finish, lean over and gulp it all down with a drink? Or hold your nose? Not v romantic, sorry!

Have to admit to being a practical swallower in that I only do when I can't think of where to spit!

are you serious?

If you don't like it, don't do it!

if you don't like doing something surely no decent man would want his partner to do it. So assuming that he is a nice guy, you would have to pretend to like it. Which is not a great way to run a sexual relationship IMO. Isn't there plenty of stuff you can do that you both like?

bleugh! never! {shudders}

Prepare oneself with tissues and discreetly spit

' one swallow doesnt mean she loves you...'

My tactic is to do it before breathing, don't think about it just swallow it like a drink, as it arrives in your mouth rather than holding it all and swallowing in one go, otherwise I gag.
God that sounds gross!! But that way you don't actually taste it as such and the texture bypasses you!

and if he complains, give him a kiss and let HIM swallow it

If you don't like swallowing why don't you suggest he finishes on your face, I don't know a bloke who doesn't like that one!!

Seth - he is completely fine that i don't do it, and understands my reasons. He's never ever put any pressure on me to do it at all.

It's me. I had one bad experience with someone years ago, and since then, well.. i've not been keen. But i want to learn how to, i don't want one bad experience years ago to put me of sxomething that could be mutually enjoyable, iyswim?

It's a kind of 'if i don't try it i'll never know'

I just need some pointers

yuk haven't done this since I was 15, what's the big deal with it?

I have never had a problem with swallowing. however I do find it tastes different depending what dh has been eating(sorry if tmi!). Sometimes very salty,sometime not so much. Tbh would rather swallow than spit into hanky or something(yuk) or get it in my eye(ouch-it stings). But dh does sometimes like "finishing" on my breasts.

Ffs

Back of the throat and swallow in time with the pulses, you don't even taste it most of the time, you don't have to hold it on your mouth or gargle with it .

Rimsky , you must know some horrible blokes then, or ones who think porn sex is good sex.

Whats up, LadyBlaBlah??

It's very simple- you just swallow.

If you don't want to, then don't. If you do, then just get on with it.

I don't get why it would enhance the experience for either of you for you to swallow rather than spit. I doubt very much if 'Manshape's' ejaculatory fluids are any nicer than anyone else's.

rimsky you really need to meet a better class of man

I was just about to serve dinner.
YUK YUK YUK

(I'm with stewmaker)

I don't even spit, TBH. It just doesn't happen in my mouth at all.

Sorry if this subject offends, but ffs.. thread title should tell you what it's about...

Maybe I'm just a filth bag (or watched too much porn) but it's usually me who has suggested the face thing... But we don't want to get onto my foibles that would be a thread in itself!!

Just...don't.

Oh right. Well if I were you, I wouldn't aim to swallow right away, I would start with spitting. Have a tissue somewhere ready (discreetly, not tied to his testicle or anyhting) and when the moment comes just spit into it afterwards.

Of course it can enhance the experience, it's a very powerful psychological thing for a man that you are accepting his semen in that most intimate way.

Why do you want to?

I don't. It's minging!