Teach me how to swallow....

[deemented]

Yeah, i know

But, i can't. And i really want to. Tried it once and it was pretty grim, though wasn't with manshape, and it's put me off completely.

I do want to do it though, and i know he'd like me to, but i know he's fine that i don't, iyswim?

Meh, I've never minded swallowing. It's not the nicest taste in the world, but it's ok really. The temperature/texture are worse than the flavour, but it's really not that bad.

But as has been said before, I'm sure it's not expected or necessary. Don't do it if it makes you uncomfortable.

Dee - just make sure that you don't use either Listerine (thanks to BOF for that little gem) or Aquafresh mouthwash first!

I made the mistake of using Aquafresh once and only once before giving DH oral sex.

When I looked up at him, he had tears rolling down his face. I thought they were tears or joy..........

Seriously though, I would never swallow again. I was forced to in a past relationship. Nasty piece of work that he was. Grabbed my head and forced himself into my mouth.

Twat.

I think if you use plenty of spit, your hand to accompany your mouth, take time to vary the movements you make, it's just as much of a turn on for you as DH. Or is that just me?

To be fair, I usually get to the point where I absolutely have to have it (sex) and stop with the oral anyway!

Dee I also had a horrible expeience in "my yoof" it put me off for years.
My DH accepted that it would never be part of our sexlife - but then one night I don't know what happened I just did it! Sometimes overthinking can make it worse.
Does it make sense if I said - just start off and take it from there - you don't have to decide at the beginning whether you will swallow or not?
Small steps everytime [bgrin]

BUT if you decide it is not for you then that is fine too

You have to go with the flow as it were.

If you think too much about it, you will put yourself off.

Just do it as and when you feel like it. He'll be even more surprised then as he's not going to be expecting it every time either.

It's a lot more fun that way.

can he finish on your boobs? Cant think of a man that would not like this

Deep throat - it (mostly) misses the taste buds

But only do it if it feel right

oohh, the both go in the shower to clean off...

Another thought, for those of you that are non-swallowing or BJ reticent, do your DPs give you oral?

Only asking because I can't imagine a fanny taste any nicer than a cock....

then, not the.

Women do actually taste better than mens' cum. Just sayin'!

With Saggy on that one. Cock is fine, fanny bleurgh I just couldnt. Pineapple works, so do strawberries. Lots of meat makes it taste bitter IME.

The head/hair thing is good in a trusting relationship but probably a marmite thing, like spanking and being tied up.

69 is not a good idea if you have a tendancy to bite down

I dont know, a little nibble can be nice if he hit's the right spot. Or if you hit the right spot.

I agree with that, Kiki.

Seriously though, thanks for all the advice and tips - it's much appreciated. I know i don't have to do it, but i really want to - i feel like he gives me so much i want to be able to do something for him, iyswim

nothing wrong with minge

Kiki, really, REALLY?

I am generally not keen on giving to receive but I couldn't live without oral and so I wouldn't expect my bloke not to either

Yep, really.

Interesting! I would have thought both were on a similar scale, even if a bit different.

Saggy - women are muskier, much less salty. IME anyways.

I remember having sex with a particularly gorgeous, French, animal-like, lovely man when I was younger. He came on my back and then licked it off me. What a turn on!

It kind of set my gyros after that. If a guy is repulsed by his own spunk, I'm not interested. My test: swallow and then give him a big kiss..... Or get him to lick it off you. A truly sensuous and sexual guy will not be repulsed by any sexual emissions IME.

Well, you learn something new every day :o

vagabond

He was French! What can I say.... at least he didn't want me to eat oysters.

Ah, I remember him well.......[slinks off to FB]

i think spitting is worse - surely its just quicker to swallow? gone in an instant..spitting requires more tasting

I agree with Vagabond. Then again, I always did like the pervs...