It's all about......ME! :)

[BibiBlocksberg]

Hello to all and a Medal for those of you that stayed over all 16 pages of the 'It's all about him' thread.

Since it has gotten so big and since I will most likely going to be droning on about this for a little while I thought it would be easier to just start a new thread.

Must say I prefer the new title

For those that didn't read the mammoth previous thread, in a nutshell it's about me dithering to leave partner of 8 years. No sex life for a year, he's very self centred and unmotivated etc, no future to speak of, fed up.

Finally told him I want to split up last night so am now using MN as my lifeline to ensure I really do get out of this excuse for a relationship.

Thank you all again for letting me do this and your support :)

There are now two Swedish Wallanders it transpires. One is good and the right one. The one that is on now is the wrong one and I don't know who anyone is.

I vote for go to beach and do moody walking and make resolutions. Local animal attraction will be full of over-excited toddlers.

yes, both

Moody walking, how funny! Would be cheaper but the animal attraction would really cheer me up......even with the all the toddlers.

if you hear screaming it's because the situation is even worse than I feared......

Hello Bibi! My computer celebrated Christmas by COMPLETELY freaking out so have just caught up.

Rolling about laughing at the toffee f-ing penny. I like the toffee penny Just keep the coffee creams away from me devil's work

Am now curious about the animal attraction. Is it full of cute baby reindeer? Or non-christmassy animals only?

Glad to see the others have been in to keep you cheery, and that supernoodles are the plat du jour as usual. All is right with the world.

Go to the beach tomorrow and spend £15 on a mountain of marshmallows & booze to put in your hot chocolate afterwards.

Wondered what had happened to you ElfPants. Thought you might be enjoying that RL I've heard so much about :)

Non christmassy animals only though I like your marshmallows and booze idea a lot now.

Will mull it over as I sleep - off to bed now so catch up tomorrow, goodnight all.

Wrapping birthday presents for DD's birthday! And I get to do it again next week for DS2...

I vote walk on beach. Let us know what you decide!

How was your day Bibi? Hope you did nice things. I am full of brithday cake

or birthday cake. whoops.

OI CATS!!!

Hope your Daughter had a nice 'brithday' nora

Thank you cat chaser Katisha :)

Am afraid to say I did absolutely bugger all today

Full of good intentions for tomorrow though, weather permitting.

Hope you all had a good day.

DO you feeel like you have started youe lovely new free life yet?

In fits and starts ReallFab, I'll be happy to be free for a few hours and then find myself crying over the fact he's gone and then happy again.

Bit of a seesaw at the minute....

You need some endorphins to perk you up (although I think a day doing bugger all sounds fantastic).

You'll find that the happy bits will get more frequent and the crying less so.

I prescribe the following:

Book at least one event to look forward to in your diary for January.

A brisk walk/exercise of some kind for those endorphins.

Buy yourself a good book to ward off any lonely moments. Some good bargains on Amazon.

Keep posting. We'll still be here.

Thanks Nora, trying hard not to be a whinge bag but difficult sometimes.

Was quite chirpy this morning and then actually got angry which I thought was good.

Angry at the shitty crappy way he thought he could treat me, well, probably forever.

Unbelievably peed off that he's just buggered off without so much as a another word. Grrrrrr!!

Thanks for ideas - am looking into booking a daytrip to London as soon as.

Day trip to London sounds like a great idea.

You are allowed to be a whinge bag. It is ALL ABOUT YOU!

I do think his lack of contact is bizarre. What a toss pot.

I'm off to bed now but will be back to check on you tomorrow.

Thank you :) - have a good night, update you on my ever so exciting life tomorrow :)

How are you this morning BiBi?.

Only just seen this ReallyFab, thanks for asking.

Started pretty meh but am now packing his nick nacks etc that are still kicking around MY precious space into a box and generally thinking 'sod you, idiot'

As I said, it's a see-saw atm :)

Hope you and my other supporters are ok today!?

That sounds like a good, positive thing to be doing. Well done!

Thanks nora, there is a big part of me that really doesn't want to be wasting any more emotion and headspace on someone who evidently hasn't given a shit for years.

Just need to keep that attitude on top of the 'buhuu, poor old me' ones

hiya

day trip to manchester ?

that could be good...

Never been to Manchester AF, could always have a mini break (5 hours drive from where I am so would want to stay overnight)

....was just re-reading the 'its all about him' thread and discovered it's two weeks to the day that he left.

Am genuinly shocked at that discovery, was convinced it was just over one week

Just wanted to document that for posterity (and award myself a medal for bravery)

God, time really does fly!!

I expect he has made it to fantastic multiple new levels on the PS3 in that time...