Oops, sorry I missed the re-appearance of my thread on Friday. Keep meaning to update and then think oh nothings happened it'd be too boring for people to read.
I'm very well though thanks for asking FourFortyFor :)
The longer I'm single the better I like it, still discovering what it is that I like or re- discovering is probably a better word.
I'm starting to finally like myself - never thought that would happen after so long hating and disregarding myself.
I shudder to think that without MN and the wonderful advice I received i would still be servicing a selfish twunt and be unhappy.
At the time i have to confess that I had many wobbles and remember thinking 'great, you've ended a perfectly good relationship because you listened to the opinions of strangers on the internet'
However, I can say wholeheartedly that I made exactly the right decision for me and am thankful every day that I'm not wasting any more of my time, kindness, generosity etc on a man who just didn't deserve it and more than likely never did.
MN continues to help me - you wouldn't believe the amount of threads I still read and go 'OMG, I had no idea I didn't have to tolerate that'
Amazing, it really is! On a more practical note, I haven't heard from the captain since valentines day, I still have his car though am saving for my own asap.
I just figure that all the years he just sat still and did and said nothing it won't do any harm for me to play the same game now for a few months until I don't have to be out of pocket.
Sorry, rambling now (nothing new there then :)) hope you are well ForFourty and everyone else who knows me on here 