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ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No.7

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startingovernow · 27/08/2010 00:32

Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us!

Whether you are a new dumpling or a vet, feel free to join us in our quest for serenity. Shock Sad Angry Hmm Shock Sad Angry...........

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 24/09/2010 18:35

Puts head down and gets on with baking Smile

startingovernow · 24/09/2010 19:26

Also lowers head in shame but still grining at post coital glow in morning Grin hoists self up & bravely soliders on Grin

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Patienceobtainsallthings · 24/09/2010 20:49

One of the classic co dependent signs is mistaking sex for love LC and i guess that is why i accepted so much for so long .But hey it was great sex so those memories are good to have but yes he was a hard habit to break !
RR just different thing altogether,more getting intouch with myself and lots of experimenting,i think its a feminist issue actually "Should women be able to w**k to the best of their ability "Personally i wasnt really bothered when i was with H ,i never went without ,although when i was pg {with dd esp} sex drive went thru the roof ,i think its hormones and blood supply increase anyway re RR its all orgasms and that has to be a good thing !!!!!

armbow · 24/09/2010 22:15

hiya!!
Feeling uber awesome tonight ! Grin

after last's night debarcle with h sobbing i decided that if did ask to come back i could not do it, so tonight i took control i told him politely but firmly that i was moving on and that i was happy, and left him in no doubt that i was on my way up. (by the way he is having doubts about ow already quelle (??) surprise !!!)

happy - baking????? bloody hell i was going to nip to sainsburys !!! Blush

getting - no you are not shallow - h has not asked to come back but i felt we ere heading that direction and i needed to nip it in the bud.

starting, lc and patience - thanks for your support last night, i was in a bit of a mess, feeling like i was being sucked back in to the underworld lol!!!!

getting - V EXICTED !!!! ps if i am a bit on the drag don't worry i am useless at directions - i once ended up in Northumberland when i supposed to be going to Scarborough !!!!!
yuck at smear tests i have to treat myself to a chinese takeaway after i have one Grin

Patienceobtainsallthings · 24/09/2010 22:30

for AB and all dumplings Chin Up Tits Out !

armbow · 24/09/2010 22:38

Smile thanks patience, i feel very proud of myself tonight !!

you ladies were with me in spirit !!!!

teaandcakeplease · 24/09/2010 22:40

I feel proud, I took the DCs swimming alone today Shock A little hairy in the changing rooms when DS wouldn't stay put whilst trying to load locker but I managed it alone with 2 toddlers.

See ya tomorrow ladies x

startingovernow · 25/09/2010 03:49

Ladies I am sorry but I will be f*d tomorrow (excuse the pun! Grin). I have just had a marathon shaaton! Word in your ear dear fellow dumplings serious sportsmen have serious stamina! Grin

Armbow, I nipped to my local country market this morn & was going to pass it off as something I whipped up between sh*gs Grin.

Tea, well done. I used to find the swimming a total nightmare but it's finally got easier! So glad you are going to be able to make tomorrow Smile

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 25/09/2010 05:04

Starting! Envy Shock

teaandcakeplease · 25/09/2010 09:31

Starting Shock You deserve it.

littlecritter · 25/09/2010 18:59

Hope you all had a fab day and made sure Starting had a nice soft cushion to sit on. In fact, I hope you've all had such a good time that you'll arrange another one very soon. I'm definitely coming next time. I've missed you all today. Hope you got the delivery ok despite turning my driver away!SmileSmileSmile

teaandcakeplease · 25/09/2010 19:05

It was a lovely day. I arrived late despite being one of the closest to Getting's house Shock

I'll leave it to the others to recount the fabulous dumpling meet up Smile

gettingeasier · 25/09/2010 19:31

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teaandcakeplease · 25/09/2010 19:33

What did I miss? What delivery guy? Confused

I agree Patience, your DCs are stunning.

Thank you for having us Getting. Did Happys car start ok in the end?

littlecritter · 25/09/2010 19:41

Getting, I'm not answering that - look at my email address!!! Just hoping you got the goodies in the end Smile.

armbow · 25/09/2010 19:45

OMG LC that is lovely !!!!! thank you xx Smile (ocado???? poshie Grin)

just got back in, had a lovely day thanks ladies and thanks getting for being a smashing hostess xxxx

armbow · 25/09/2010 19:53

tea - as i was arriving an ocado truck turned up at the house and just gave getting bags of food and drink - we assumed it was a mistake but he said that this was the address he had so had to deliver - turns out it was from lc !!!!

teaandcakeplease · 25/09/2010 20:18

Wow! Smile

Patienceobtainsallthings · 25/09/2010 20:48

The baby was mine..... dont know who the other kid was in photos LOL!!!

teaandcakeplease · 25/09/2010 20:51

Smile Patience.

What did you get up to today?

Patienceobtainsallthings · 25/09/2010 20:59

DD dancing am. so i played football with terrier and ds in the park ,then pm went to playnite at the sprts centr .Its mega 3hrs for bouncy castle trampoline badminton table tennis etc just home quick bath and bed ,hope you all had a lovely time x

Patienceobtainsallthings · 25/09/2010 21:17

Waves to SOV hope ur cool x

startingovernow · 25/09/2010 22:07

Think I was high from sex when I posted during the midnight hours Blush Blush.
Worse I then went back & went another two more rounds. I managed to arrive late at airport & was only left on flight as my friend who works in the airport was on duty tg!

Getting, you are the hostest with the mostest Smile. You are a lovely lady & thank you so much for having us today. Sorry I was too comatose to raise body from chair & give a hand Blush Blush.

LC, omg that's amazing that you were so thoughtful! We all agreed that you & Patience & Sov & Chairmum were missed today.

Patience, glad you had a nice day today but we really missed having you with us.

Happy, I will be dreaming of your lovely cakes tonight

Tea, thank you so much for your kindness in coming to my rescue this evening, much appreciated Smile. Big delay in customs & check in was closed when I got there, was told to go & get a seat on flight late tonight Shock. Dug deep & used dumpling power to plead for the sake of my poor abandoned dc's that they would allow me on plane. Just managed to convince them by skin of my teeth Smile.

Loved, loved meeting up with the rest of my dumpling mates Smile.

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Patienceobtainsallthings · 25/09/2010 22:26

Thankyou for giving me hope there is wild sex after 40yo Startin',I am of course in training myself ATM re stamina etc,
Had a laff 2 nite in take away after sports nite,2 girls in the ladies distraught 2 outside on their phones and a full squad about 10 in the disabled toilet.It had all kicked off.....she had said that X has said that Y had been talking about her Shockeverybody then frantically phoning and texting 4 the true story to calm her anxiety re reputation, as this high drama went on ds was having a very windy poo brought on from too much bouncy castle then a milkshake and dd fascinated about 2 girls goin to the toilet together"R they both doin a wee wee mummy?"

Patienceobtainsallthings · 25/09/2010 22:30

It took me back 25 yrs in a flash ,lots of spotty boys too ,acting real tough LOL!!!

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