ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No. 6

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Cant survive 5 minutes without this thread

Waves to Armbow and Patience

Here's me programme

Two owls outside talking to each other
Saw a Tai Chi class i might go to next week x

i was thinking of taking up kick-boxing

I know I don't have time to do this really but I think if I did it would give me serenity. Look at the link to the long thread within this link.

Kick boxing, tai chi, makes surfing look a bit tame

candles YES !!!! going to read that thread!

This is all a bit crazy for me Happy...... you are one amazing dumpling can you find a stem ginger and walnut fragrance too?Guess what I'm doing this weekend ....will try votives i think,£2.99 in my fairy shop.so must be worth trying if you get the quantities right.
Didnt even know what a votive was until i got chucked

Yes im thinking kick boxing too AB .Good stress buster i reckon and something to have in common with DS x

Happy ....We are not worthy oh mighty one ....you are the messenger that brings hope to all skint entrepreneurial dumplings

Happy wakes up dreaming of a Dumpling commune where DJHappy music fills the air (the newbies have not experienced this yet), on the beach the girls and kids surf when they like, kick boxing takes place on the hill, there is a smell of essential oils coming from the workshop where all happily churn out candles for the highly successful Dumplings Delight brand that has achieved international acclaim, this being just one line, there being many products created by the highly talented Dumplings all with names like Serenity, Fabulosity and Power.

This is somewhat different from the XH commune where sad looking wrecked and often bald men sit quietly on the roadside wondering how they got to where they are.

We will not be overcome ladies.

love what !!! what a fab vision to start the day - can i be called power please??

the men's commune sounds crap - glad i'm in our one !!!!

was meant to read love that (still not woken up yet)

Lazy Dumpling some of us have been candling since 6....

.... eat better pan has started properly today.

just filled slow cooker with chicken casserole stuff .... and today is the first day i have had brekkie in about a month

That has inspired me to get up AB. In RL I have been on MN and web since 6!

at happy

hope everyone has a great friday ....

my sister had a baby on Wednesday and I went over to see her. cried the whole journey back. Her other half just seemed so in awe of her and the baby, it made me feel so sad. I just don't feel like I am ever going to find someone who is going to want me for more than six years. that seems to be the cut off point in my relationships.

i was feeling so positive, now just feel utterly shit again.

Hugs BB ...I wonder what it would have been like to have husband in awe of what I was goin thru re babies but my best thing this week is no contact whatsoever with him
Hoping to attract new man who is amazed at my money making independent contented new self
Hope ur toe is ok ?
Are you out there Miaow ?
Waves to everyone ......away to buy soy wax ,sooooooo exciting!!!!!Have you checked out folksy .com all handmade goodies for sale .....need to go for a lie down ,not felt so positive in a long time

Sorry BB its the things you arent expecting that hit you hardest and its really early days for you dont forget

Patience glad all sounds well with you

Pink nice to see you on the thread hope you are having a lovely day

All the surf stuff made me laugh this morning, yes lets have a dumpling surf holiday right here..let me tell you ladies these guys are hot. A bit of a Mrs Robinson moment one of them is particularly gorgeous

Anyway I am soooo excited I have signed up for this very hardcore activity tomorrow. Both dc stared at me wide eyed ( and I have to say with scepticism ) but if I carry it off thats it guys I am THE dumpling of the week

I am now going to calm down

On a different note I chatted to a fellow resident earlier whose exh threw her out of their home but didnt wait until she left before starting their affair. She has her son one week a year and occasional weekends she has given up with court cases trying to change it . By comparison my situation isnt so bad

Anyway got to go and eat my next yummy meal god knows how much I weigh now . Oh well

Hi all
Sorry you are feeling cr** BB, you will in sure feel like that sometimes but less and less
Patience I await candle reports!
Getting, sounds like good bop bop good vibrations.
Cooking now, wish I was eating your chicken casserole AB.

hello all....
hang on in there beebs... thinking of you.

i was thinking the other day how can i ever believe a man ever again when he tells me he wants to be with me forever.???

casserole was lovely happy but the kids refused to eat it so i had to eat whole pot to myself!!!!

getting - sounds like you are having an awesome time dude

patience - you are sounding very positive.... let us know how the candles come out.

had a rubbish day today - the tax credits people have lost my claim i think and it has been three weeks since i applied - feel like it is all falling apart now about the money.

had a massive go at h before because he has bought himself a load of new clothes and i am having to buy value food. really wish i could shut the hell up sometimes

and to top it all off someone is coming to view the house at the weekend.

testing testing

I actually tidyed up today and hoovered everywhere, also hoovered the car and sprayed interior with "new car smell" foam that was on offer,bit optimistic if you ask me.
Waves to AB,never thought in a million years we would have ended up like this,never thought he would see his kids eating food with yellow labels or reduced stickers on.
Just have to accept this is my lifestyle for a bit.Hope to sort myself out soon re housing and move on.Just treat the viewing like the business meeting it is ,chin up ,tits out and all that.All about moving forwards ,I am going to write down the full story this weekend so that i can read it when i am older and realise how strong i was to give my family a chance away from him.I think i can forgive him for the hurt that he has caused me but i dont know if i can say the same re the hurt and distress that he has caused my children x

I'm messing about with my settings before I catch up on thread. Ive just put this on continuous cos I don't know if I can cope with Startings way of copy/pasting.

Now all the threads are on continuous.....which I didn't want.

I tried to post on chat to ask if they all had to be continuous but posting didn't work for some reason. GGRRRR.

Anyway I'll read thread from page one now....

Waves to Pink and goodluck Getting with your stuntgirl thang !!!
AB dont worry about losing it with your H ....
im just grateful i dont have to live with mine anymore,just have to accept that mine is a lost cause x