Oh Cherry, I think the having the babygro for Edith is the most touching thing. We all want our loved ones to be held gently in death as much as in life.
I'm so sorry for your loss of your little girl. I hope and pray that if you are able to labour, it will be something that may help you heal rather than add any more pain to your burden.
In times gone by, long , long ago, people who died were often painted in red ochre and given back to the earth curled like a baby. They blessed their ones who had gone with flowers even then.
It just always reminds me that birth and death have always walked hand in hand, and somehow I find that feeling that we go in the footsteps of a greater tribe somehow comforting. That is the spirit in which I write. Not to make your loss any the lesser.
Anytime someone dies (especially before they have ben born) its like the loss of a whole world, a whole life with all its riches and sorrows.
If you want someone to talk to (apart from us here), this might be a good organisation. They have many ideas about remembering your baby.
Samaritans likewise, are always there to listen (I used to volunteer and people would call for all sorts - often grief) xxx
www.sands.org.uk/