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Pregant after miscarriage - support thread

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Nervousbuthopeful · 10/11/2022 11:29

Hi everyone,

I'm new to posting on mumsnet, but have spent plenty of time reading through others' conversations for reassurance when anxious, and this seems like such a friendly place!

I've just found out I'm pregnant again after the miscarriage of my first at 11 weeks in August. I would love to connect with other people in a similar situation.

I'm feeling relatively ok, i.e. not totally panicked all the time, about this one, but I know it's going to be hard. I really find it hard to believe sometimes that this could work out.

Please send a comment if you're in a similar situation and would like to share/receive some support!

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Peachy3118 · 12/05/2023 13:06

Had scan this morning and we have a wee strong heartbeat - thinking slightly behind due to late implantation but only a couple of days! The relief after seeing our wee beat ❤️

tulipsunday · 12/05/2023 15:36

@Peachy3118 and @38andtrying great news! So pleased for you both.

Stressedannni · 12/05/2023 16:24

Hi 👋 scan went well. They looked at me like I was mad as I hadn't booked with a midwife. Said I was too scared!

tulipsunday · 12/05/2023 21:23

@Stressedannni amazing. So pleased scans are going well for everyone. Gives me some hope. On holiday now for a week so hoping I can relax a bit from all the stress of things x

tulipsunday · 13/05/2023 06:45

How you doing today @Daniki xx

Daniki · 13/05/2023 06:56

@tulipsunday hey, doing ok I'm just waiting on AF to start which should be today but iv absolutely no AF symptoms whatsoever so I'm hope it's not really delayed 🙈 xx

Peachy3118 · 13/05/2023 09:48

Stressedannni · 12/05/2023 16:24

Hi 👋 scan went well. They looked at me like I was mad as I hadn't booked with a midwife. Said I was too scared!

@Stressedannni I got exact same look, was told to leave and call them asap - told them I just couldn’t until I’d had some reassurance! struggled to get appointments tho but they managed to get me in but now have my booking in appointment at 10 weeks

tulipsunday · 13/05/2023 14:03

@Daniki hopefully if not meant to be this cycle AF won't keep you waiting too long x

Stressedannni · 13/05/2023 16:04

@Peachy3118 lucky the epu unit could book my 12 week scan then and there. I sometimes people forget all the trauma!

Brokenpancreas94 · 13/05/2023 20:09

Hi everyone found out today that I'm pregnant (1-2 weeks with clear blue digital), had my mmc last September and had been trying since January!
Got a lot of mixed emotions going on now, excited but also super scared! Xx

tulipsunday · 14/05/2023 07:08

Aw welcome @Brokenpancreas94 I remember your user name. I know it is such a mixed bag of feelings when you are pregnant after miscarriage.

I am coming up to 5 1/2 weeks which is when my last pregnancy ended (although bleeding didn't start for ten days) so feeling a bit anxious.

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 09:05

tulipsunday · 14/05/2023 07:08

Aw welcome @Brokenpancreas94 I remember your user name. I know it is such a mixed bag of feelings when you are pregnant after miscarriage.

I am coming up to 5 1/2 weeks which is when my last pregnancy ended (although bleeding didn't start for ten days) so feeling a bit anxious.

Thank you 😊 I wish you all the luck too! If my dates are correct then I'm 4weeks now. Every little cramp that I get I keep thinking the worst! Xx

ChloeN · 14/05/2023 09:33

@Brokenpancreas94 glad to see you on here lovely🥰

@tulipsunday hope you’re doing okay! It’s hard getting to the milestones of previous pregnancies! Were your last losses mmc? I’ve got crap memory I can’t remember what you said 🤦🏻‍♀️

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 09:35

Thank you @ChloeN 🥰🥰

Stressedannni · 14/05/2023 10:36

Morning everyone! 🌞 I think every milestone is a mix of relief and fear over getting over the next one!!!

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 11:59

I'm such a nervous wreck!! I've just been to the toilet and when I wipe there's a very slight tinge of brown...could this be implantation?? I've never had implantation with my previous pregnancies!

Stressedannni · 14/05/2023 12:15

@Brokenpancreas94 I had this pink mucus. It stopped after 3 days. Are you on any medication?

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 12:28

@Stressedannni yes, insulin, venlafaxine, ferrous fumerate and then taking pregnacare xx

Stressedannni · 14/05/2023 12:30

I did have this with my miscarriage a few years ago. I'm on Pesseries, injections baby asprin this time under the misscarige clinic. Can u contact the epu? 🌻

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 12:51

@Stressedannni I'm going to see how I go today and then call tomorrow morning once I've dropped my daughter off at school

Stressedannni · 14/05/2023 13:23

@Brokenpancreas94 hope it eases off. And you can rest up

Brokenpancreas94 · 14/05/2023 15:09

@Stressedannni it seems to have stopped now! 🤞🏻xx

tulipsunday · 14/05/2023 19:52

@Brokenpancreas94 glad it has stopped it is such an anxious time.

@ChloeN yeh first was MMC. December one blighted ovum technically so pregnancy ended 5 1/2 wks but bleeding didn't start till 7 so had no idea 😢 that's what I am worried about this time.

ChloeN · 14/05/2023 20:14

@tulipsunday Its hard when you have no idea if it’s all okay in there😖 I was the same mine stopped growing at 7 weeks but never bled until I took the medical management so weeks later! Hopefully everything will be perfect this time for you 🤞🏻

tulipsunday · 15/05/2023 17:03

Thank you @ChloeN hope everyone is doing ok today. Hints of nausea and some fatigue but feeling ok otherwise x

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