👶 Due November 2022 - part II 🎆

[Cheetocat]

The first thread got to 40 pages. 😊 If anyone can find the list of due dates please post it.

Thanks everyone, it's really hard, my OH has taken time off work so we've got each other to lean on.

Make sure you take as much time as you need @Cheetocat. It really takes its toll on you and only you know when you're 'ready' to start tackling the world xx

@ChasingRainbows22 @roobearbaby My due date is 13th Nov too. Haven't been on this thread for a while as I've been so sick but will try keep up a bit more now.

@Cheetocat I'm really sorry to hear your news, wishing you health and happiness for the future. X

@Cheetocat sending you love and healing, I’m so sorry 😞💖

Hey everyone, just catching up with messages as I logged off for a few days.
Felt shocking, started with this cold/flu virus last week and then Wednesday started with blood stained discharge, cramping, pain.. turns out I have a bad water infection so on antibiotics 🥴 Still barely any pregnancy symptoms though! 😔

@AbbiL0u Yes I'm a money worrier at the best of times but all the price hikes plus baby plus the fact our rent is extortionate and we now need a bigger car is making my anxiety SO BAD. That plus mat pay based off a part time wage. I don't deal with change very well and all this isnt helping 🥴

@Cheetocat I'm so sorry to hear your news 😔 Sending you all lots of love ❤️

@Cheetocat i am so sorry too, look after yourself. Its good that your husband is off with you so you can support each other.

Sorry I'm so behind on here, harder to keep up with a toddler.

@Cheetocat sending you hugs, so sorry to hear this. Glad you have each other supporting.

Hi everyone, just catching up on this thread.

@Cheetocat so sorry to hear your news, sending you lots of hugs your way. Xx

Probably going to jump off here now too.
I knew my pregnancy wasn’t right from
the beginning with falling and rising HCG and now with 3 empty sacs. My last scan to confirm viability would be next week on Tuesday. But the bleeding has started today.
I wish you all happy healthy pregnancies.
Hopefully my time will come soon x

Huge hugs @RhiRhi1988, have everything crossed for you in the future and hope you’re as okay as you can be. Lots of love 💕

@RhiRhi1988 I'm so sorry to hear this 😔 Take care of yourself. Sending you lots of love and baby dust xxx

So sorry to hear the sad news @Cheetocat and @RhiRhi1988 .

I'll be 12 weeks this week, hoping the nausea/tiredness settles down. I felt better for a couple of days, over did it, and ended up in bed for 2 days, twice. Trying very hard to make sure I rest. I have my booking in phone call later this week. Just keeping so busy with life stuff, still can't quite believe we're having another baby!

I’m so sorry to see quite a few ladies have experience a miscarriage. I hope you all take the time to heal… it’s devastating and having been there myself know how difficult it is..sending lots of love 💕

I’m 11 weeks now and still feeling nauseous, hungover and being sick. I’ve been put on a second lot of medicines which has reduced the sickness but left me feeling really spaced out/hungover. Just so uncomfortable, I thought this would have eased by now.

anyone else in the same situation?

So sorry to hear about your miscarriages @Cheetocat @RhiRhi1988, Hope you have lots of support around you.

@Brailsbaby I’m just over 9 weeks and feel nauseous most days especially afternoon onward. It was suggested I go on tablets a couple of times but have so far avoided. My booking in appt showed I’d lost weight. I’m struggling to enjoy any food bar fruit at the moment and am glad I can eat fruit because even looking at a glass of water sends me to the loo heaving. I’ve managed a proper lunch today but then had heartburn this afternoon which I also had with my son. My nausea wasn’t as bad with my son but I was very tired until well into second trimester and I’m shattered at the mo most days.

@Brailsbaby yep. I’m 10 weeks now and had the nausea pretty much non stop bar an hour every morning since week 4. I’m lucky that I haven’t actually been sick yet but I’m sooo tired all the time and recently feeling really weak when I’m just out walking, like I’ve got nothing in me. I normally miles each day and have loads of energy so it sucks that I struggle with a short easy walk. We had a day out at the beach today and I was miserable because I felt so awful, just wanted to get back home to bed. Stopped at a cafe to grab some water and happened to notice their ice cream sign. Something in me screamed out to by an orange Calippo (not had one since I was a kid) and it was like this amazing relief from the nausea. I felt so much better! The nausea did return a while after but it was so nice to have that little break. I sense I’ll be in Sainsbury’s ice cream department at 8am tomorrow.

@sarahj878 the tablets haven’t helped me at all, they make me so drowsy and I have to go to sleep… so me taking them in the hope I could get back to work hasn’t really helped. I don’t know what’s worse tbh the nausea or the sickness, I think at least with being sick you get relief for an hour or so after unlike the nausea where it’s constant.

@Cocobeau lollies had seemed to help me especially when I was being sick so much I couldn’t keep water down. That and sucking on ice cubes are the only thing that have helped me keep fluid down.

I feel like a rubbish mum and wife atm, not able to do anything, can’t even go out in the car without being sick so feeling useless to say the least!

@Brailsbaby I know what you mean about feeling useless. I laid in bed until 11.30am this morning then found a bit of energy and put on 3 washes, went for walk around the block with my 2 y/o and that was it! Back in bed by 2pm shattered and not been able to do anything else 😴 I feel bad for my OH and my kids x

@RhiRhi1988

Guys reading your messages at least I feel I’m not alone, constantly nauseous and tired, forever thinking about my next sleep break and stayed in bed til 2pm yesterday, feeling quite low because I’m feeling like a failure.

got a phone call on Friday from scan dep explaining I’d been forgotten about and am being sent to a scan over 44 miles away from home. Followed by lots of bloods due to being high risk and issues in other pregnancies. Then psychiatrist appt on Wednesday.

feeling like i whine so much just really looking forward to the enjoyable stage. 13 weeks Tuesday and so ready to smile

@FlowerJ - yeah I can relate to this 100%. I’m really missing my little girl, she’s at nursery all day, then when she comes home I just don’t have the energy and with her climbing over me it makes me feel so sick.

@Kathno4 I feel like a failure too, not able to work or do much at home, not able to take or pickup my girl from nursery, I feel awful, I’ve not been out the house for a couples of weeks and feel awful.. hoping the sickness and nausea go away soon

@Cocobeau snap with the orange calippo! I made the family take a diversion on our walk last week with a sudden urge for a calippo from the corner shop. Just stocked up on loads in the freezer, it was such a relief from the nausea!

Sorry to hear lots of struggles. But it’s nice to not feel alone, as been feeling really down about being so useless too.

Haha snap on the calippos, have a freezer drawer full of them and they’re such a welcome relief from nausea.

I’m sorry you guys are feeling it too. For me watermelon helps my nausea 🍉

I'm also in the feeling rough club. Nearly 10 weeks for me although I know last time I felt fine week 12 but then awful weeks 14 to 17. I just have no energy and spent most of the weekend at home doing nothing.

I also feel bad for my toddler, although he is very easy going so happy to play on his own a lot which does help. I'm glad he's going to my mums today and she has lots of space so I know he will get the chance to run off some energy.

Just wish I didn't have to go to work, would happily stay in bed all day. Hoping this phases soon, I want to get into the feeling good and focused on sorting the house phase. My god is it needed!!

So sorry everyone's feeling so rough. It's completely out of your control and just getting through the day is a massive achievement, you're all so strong