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17 weeks and I think I'm losing/lost the baby

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OopsImDoingItAgain · 20/03/2022 12:50

Had another thread about midwife not finding the heartbeat and how I'm having a scan tomorrow, but I'm having cramps today in my lower back and down my thighs as if I'm about to come on and really sharp pains in my right hand side. I'm convinced I've lost the baby and my body is starting to catch up. I have tried phoning my midwife I don't think she's working today as no answer, I'm too early to go to the ward. What can I do? Or do I have to just sit tight until tomorrow? Sad

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Brett239 · 20/03/2022 21:51

Hope you are doing ok xoxo

nopenotplaying · 20/03/2022 21:52

@Fordian

Just remember to never vote Tory again.

The number of 'they should do THIS/they should do THAT' posts. So sad that so many do not understand the -ahem- 'disarray' - our health services are in.
Many voted for this. Own it, or protest.

And don't vote Tory. (And reflect on your Brexit vote? Some of you.)

Ffs not the time, not the place.
DogsNotMen · 20/03/2022 22:00

Sending love OP

Nosleepclub14 · 20/03/2022 22:01

Sending love OP Flowers

Wednesdayafternoon · 20/03/2022 22:03

Oh OP. I was on your previous thread, so sorry to read your further distress. Sending lots and lots of love ♥️

squishyegg · 20/03/2022 22:03

ThanksThanksThanks

Sweepingeyelashes · 20/03/2022 22:08

Flowers Flowers Flowers Flowers

DomesticatedZombie · 20/03/2022 22:10

I'm so very sorry, OP. Sending you love. Flowers

L0bstersLass · 20/03/2022 22:13

@OopsImDoingItAgain

Being transferred to a different hospital they can't find me a bed but it's getting worse I'm in lots of pain and I really don't want to miscarry in my bedroom and have that memory everytime I go in there. So in car for 2 hours but then have a private room and dh can stay with me
I don't know you, but I'm truly so very sorry that you're going through this. I hope everything works out for you. What an awful situation. Hoping against hope that all turns out well.
SeasonFinale · 20/03/2022 22:14

Hoping for the best for you.

Easterbunnyiswindowshopping · 20/03/2022 22:15

Don't be afraid to ask someone to be with you op.
Sending hugs.

Opalsareyum · 20/03/2022 22:20

Sorry to hear that you are going through this, how awful for you. Also sending 💐

lisaandalan · 20/03/2022 22:22

Bless you. ❤️

Colouringaddict · 20/03/2022 22:30

Sending my love along with all the others. Thinking of you x

justasking111 · 20/03/2022 22:30

Thinking of you

Leontine · 20/03/2022 22:31

So sorry Flowers

Dipsydoodlenoodle · 20/03/2022 22:33

I hope you get settled at your 'new' hospital and manage to have a comfortable night. Thinking of you tonight x

billy1966 · 20/03/2022 22:35

Oh you poor pet, I'm so sorry for you.
How simply awful.
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Verity226 · 20/03/2022 22:36

Oh OP my heart sank as I read through your updates. I'm so sorry you're going through this Sad

Please don't let a few arseholes deter you from posting. There are many of us here who will extend a virtual handhold for as long as you need it.

Will be thinking of you Flowers

Mummapenguin20 · 20/03/2022 22:37

Thinking of you

HollowTalk · 20/03/2022 22:38

💐

ihearttc · 20/03/2022 22:38

Can’t begin to imagine what you are going through, really hope that you get some answers tomorrow.

StressyWoman · 20/03/2022 22:38
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DappledOliveGroves · 20/03/2022 22:39

I'm so sorry. OP, thinking of you Thanks

MummyNWife · 20/03/2022 22:39

I'm sorry your going thru this xx