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17 weeks and I think I'm losing/lost the baby

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OopsImDoingItAgain · 20/03/2022 12:50

Had another thread about midwife not finding the heartbeat and how I'm having a scan tomorrow, but I'm having cramps today in my lower back and down my thighs as if I'm about to come on and really sharp pains in my right hand side. I'm convinced I've lost the baby and my body is starting to catch up. I have tried phoning my midwife I don't think she's working today as no answer, I'm too early to go to the ward. What can I do? Or do I have to just sit tight until tomorrow? Sad

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Lsquiggles · 21/03/2022 10:06

Thinking of you OP, I'm so so sorry for your loss Flowers

Winningatseesaw · 21/03/2022 10:09

Oh I'm so sorry OP. How heartbreaking. Sending much love.

wildthingsinthenight · 21/03/2022 10:09

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Holskey · 21/03/2022 10:10

I'm so sorry. How heartbreaking xx

Herecomethedaffodils · 21/03/2022 10:12

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Nobodycarestakeitelsewhere · 21/03/2022 10:13

I'm so sorry for your loss op. Flowers

theveryhungrycatapillar · 21/03/2022 10:13

Sending love and strength. Xx

LeftieLucy · 21/03/2022 10:17

I’m so sorry my lovely

elliesmummy19 · 21/03/2022 10:17

I am so sorry for your lossThanks

Hiddenvoice · 21/03/2022 10:18

I’m so sorry for your loss Sad

Rockandgrohl · 21/03/2022 10:19

I am so sorry for your loss OP

Bournetilly · 21/03/2022 10:19

I’m so sorry xx

GoodnightJude1 · 21/03/2022 10:19

I’m so so desperately sorry OP 💐

Mamadothehump · 21/03/2022 10:20

I am so, so sorry for your loss ThanksThanksThanks

Floralnomad · 21/03/2022 10:21

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PaddleBoardingMomma · 21/03/2022 10:21

😔 I'm so sorry.

LizzieBet14 · 21/03/2022 10:27

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uncomfortablydumb53 · 21/03/2022 10:29

Oh I'm so very sorry
Sending you love and strength to face what lies ahead

Twixie2022 · 21/03/2022 10:29

Heartbroken for you OP. I’m so sorry. Please be kind to yourself and lean on the people around you for support. Xx

ChartingBloopers · 21/03/2022 10:32

OP I am so very sorry to hear about your news. Bless all of your hearts, what a heartbreaking situation. Sending nothing but love OP. ❤

mummyh2016 · 21/03/2022 10:35

I'm so sorry OP Thanks

paintedcupcake · 21/03/2022 10:37

So sorry for your loss OP Thanks thinking of you all. X

wishuponastar1988 · 21/03/2022 10:42

I am terribly sorry - can't imagine how this must feel Thanks

EverydayIsPJday · 21/03/2022 10:43

So sorry OP xxxx

OopsImDoingItAgain · 21/03/2022 10:55

They said we could either have medical management or go home and wait for it to happen naturally but said they really can't give it long as it's been so long already. I've opted for medical. I asked the doctor if this means I'm going to have to see a decomposed baby and he just said don't look. So I'm guessing it will pretty bad. I'm so scared for the next 24 hours Sad

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