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17 weeks and I think I'm losing/lost the baby

503 replies

OopsImDoingItAgain · 20/03/2022 12:50

Had another thread about midwife not finding the heartbeat and how I'm having a scan tomorrow, but I'm having cramps today in my lower back and down my thighs as if I'm about to come on and really sharp pains in my right hand side. I'm convinced I've lost the baby and my body is starting to catch up. I have tried phoning my midwife I don't think she's working today as no answer, I'm too early to go to the ward. What can I do? Or do I have to just sit tight until tomorrow? Sad

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elliejjtiny · 21/03/2022 09:41

So very sorry OP.

Easterbunnyiswindowshopping · 21/03/2022 09:42

So very sorry op... Accept all the support you can.

Bear for your little one.

Icecreamandapplepie · 21/03/2022 09:43

So sorry 😞

Wagsandclaws · 21/03/2022 09:46

So so sorry op Thanks

20viona · 21/03/2022 09:46

Ah OP I'm so so
Sorry that you're going
Through this.

cataline · 21/03/2022 09:48

I was hoping for a little miracle for you all.
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Cakecakecheese · 21/03/2022 09:49

I'm so sorry.

xxmyheartxx · 21/03/2022 09:50

I'm so sorry op x

WorkEvent · 21/03/2022 09:51

OP I’m so so sorry. Sending you lots of love and support.

crackersforcheese · 21/03/2022 09:53

I am so sorry OP, please be kind to yourself Thanks

girlmom21 · 21/03/2022 09:53

Oh OP im sorry. Look after yourself and let your husband look after you too x

babyboybluewithnumbertwox · 21/03/2022 09:53

@OopsImDoingItAgain I am so sorry sweetheart Flowers Sending you the biggest cuddle and strength x

afinethingindeed · 21/03/2022 09:53

I am so sorry for your loss Sad x

ocd6 · 21/03/2022 09:54

I'm so sorry op Thanks

ChloeHel · 21/03/2022 09:55

Oh I’m so very sad for you :( I’m so sorry you are going through this and so sorry for your loss. We are all thinking of you Flowers

YanTanTetheraPetheraPimp · 21/03/2022 09:55

I am so sorry OP.
I was 19 weeks pregnant with dc2 when I miscarried and apparently the baby had died 2 months earlier.
It’s a horribly sad thing to go through 💐

PinkPrawns2 · 21/03/2022 09:56

So sorry OP Flowers

Be kind to yourself, sending you lots of love

Moonshine160 · 21/03/2022 09:56

Oh OP. I am so so sorry x

StepAwayFromGoogling · 21/03/2022 09:58

Oh, OP, I'm so very sorry. I've been refreshing this page and willing a miracle for you. What a shitty awful thing to happen. I hope you have a lot of people who love you and are looking out for you. Be kind to yourself and take some time. Feel free to cry and rage on here if it helps.

DimebagDarrell · 21/03/2022 10:00

I’m so sorry you’ve had this news. I had a similar experience - when I miscarried at 16 weeks I was told the baby had passed around 13 weeks (just a few days after perfectly normal 12 week scan).

It’s a lot to get your head around, especially when the grief is so strong. Flowers to you at to your partner as well xxx

JustHereWithPopcorn · 21/03/2022 10:01

I am so sorry SadThanks

minniep · 21/03/2022 10:02

I'm so very sorry for your loss

CaMePlaitPas · 21/03/2022 10:03

Sending you love and prayers OP, I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. Take care of yourself my love x

Gigi30 · 21/03/2022 10:03

So sorry for your loss xx

Whatdramain2022 · 21/03/2022 10:05

What sad news. We were all willing baby on. When I had a mc at 17 weeks baby had passed away weeks earlier too. I certainly understand some of what you are going through and what is to come.