Hi All,
Could I join please? I’m due 4th of March, 9 weeks today! I’m 36, and our DS has just turned 2. I’m so happy we got pregnant straight away as I was agonising over the risks of Covid in pregnancy, but then given my and hubby’s age decided to go for it, and was prepared it would take us a while!
Now I absolutely can’t wait for my 12 weeks scan to make sure there’s heartbeat and it’s all ok so far. 🤞 I’m such a worrier - with DS I had tons of private reassurance scans but now I promised myself I‘ll take some of the medical precautionary advice not to overdo it on unnecessary scans if it seems to be going ok otherwise - we’ll see how that goes...
My first midwife appointment in 1.5 weeks will be over the phone, and to me that’s fine as I don’t expect it to be particularly useful. I’ve also been looking into different (expensive unfortunately!) diagnostic options to give me extra reassurance, I also plan to do do Harmony or similar non-invasive prenatal testing for chromosomal abnormalities (just the 3 key ones, not the whole lot like some companies offer) with a more detailed private scan at around 15 weeks I think, as I definitely won’t be able to wait till 20 weeks to get the detailed view on NHS. And as I understand as 12 weeks you can already see the brain, kidney and other organs on the ultrasound but on NHS they just focus on nuchal translucency (NT), although it might depend on the hospital.
It’s so good to see other ladies with the same worries - loving the supportive vibe here! 😊